I've screwed up again. I started chatting with a guy on a dating site and he seemed nice. Not creepy,said things that I thought were him trying to be funny. After talking to him for a couple days,I've realised he's just not the sharpest tool in the shed. He repeats the same empty phrases over and over doesn't have any serious interests and to be frank bores the shit out of me. I'm going to have to disconnect and its going to suck because I really don't want to hurt his feelings. He seems genuinely respectful and nice. Why is dating so fricking hard? Aaaaaagh. Nice guys don't have anything to talk about and the fun ones all seem to turn out to be dudes trying to cheat on their spouses. 
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Avoid the nice guys...they are anything but nice.
SpikeTalon
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Apr 16, 2018
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Ok seriously though what does that even mean? Men who aren't rude and crude right off the bat are psychos?
What?
@Archer Over the years I've observed that men who claim they are nice in most cases are the direct opposite. They stalk, harass, and cheat others, especially women. Men who readily admit that they have a dark side and are just human and make mistakes are usually telling the truth. As for me, I'm not a nice guy, far from it, but I try to be decent and fair to others....and yes I have a dark side
Hope that explained things.
@SpikeTalon. Are you Steve? Damnit Steve.
@Blindbird Steve?
@SpikeTalon the ole bait and switch? Thanks for enlightening me. I wasn't sure if it was meant to be sarcastic? Now I'll know to run from the nice ones. Lol.
@Archer Unfortunately, that time I was being serious. Those who self-identify as nice guys are not necessarily psychos, but they sure can be moronic and clueless.
@SpikeTalon Nodding.
@BillyBoy2018 it's a trap. Lol
@Archer Who is that you referred to? I see no one here by that name...
@SpikeTalon his post is 3 above this. Tagged you too.
@Archer I cannot see that user, and when I click the name it says he is not an active user.
@SpikeTalon usually means you've been blocked. Others still see their posts and replies but you don't.
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