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"1200 People Were Asked Why They Left Christianity. Here is what they said."

Here is an interesting article with the top reasons they left the faith. Among the reasons was the church's stance on the LGBTQ community, behavior of the believers, Trumpism in politics, intellectual integrity, women's rights, and more.

I especially like this point: "The second most common benefit reported by those who had walked away from the faith was the ability to love and accept others."

Read the full article to learn more about why these people left Christianity.

Do any of these reasons ring true for you or for people you know?

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Julie808 8 Mar 27
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Hi! If you left Christianity you'd always be welcome into the Raelian movement and consider yourselves Christian Raelians.

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This make sense that LGBT and freedom would be the top two reasons to leave religion. Each generation since world war 2 has been decrease of Christianity communities and the increasing LGBT communities. Death penalty in 11 countries and illegal in 80 countries for the LGBT. The greatest conflict between the two communities has been anti family Government and the financial empires. Personally I respect both communities for my peace of EQ. . I don't buy into the us against them insanity I'm an individual and a bio_organism first. There is no facts or evidence to support a man can have a baby. Being the most recent conflicts.

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1200 people were asked why they left christianity.

Sanity, surely?

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Well, those reasons as listed don't really tell us anything certain. Is #1 on that hit parade in its position because the LBGTQ+++ community is being let INTO Christian churches, or kept out of it? The same goes for all of the other reasons too, I guess! We have no context there, so how can those responses mean anything??

I took it to mean that the people answering the survey felt that while they were in the faith they were pressured not to accept their LGBTQ friends and family, but after leaving the faith they were free to love them and welcome them as they wished.

That is surely not to mean that all churches are that strict. I live in a very accepting community and have many wonderful friends and acquaintances who attend church regularly and have no problem accepting the LGBTQ loved ones.

A gay neighbor of mine attends church at least twice a week, sings in the choir and also does some speaking at the services. He's well loved by all, in church and out.

Pretty sure this survey wasn't done in my very diverse and loving community. We don't have the bigotry which is more prevalent in other states. Here in Hawaii, the māhū are well respected and thought to have a more higher plane of love, spirituality and understanding. Kind of part of the culture.

I'm guessing you didn't actually read the article. I don't blame you. The first few minutes of reading is a bit dry until it gets to the main points. Quoting from the article, here is the answer to your question:

Reason 1

Flanery’s research revealed that the number one reason people walk away from Christianity is the church’s behavior and attitudes toward the LGBTQ+ community. One in four respondents listed this as their final reason for abandoning Christianity. Here are some quotes from those who responded:

“I couldn’t continue to ignore the treatment of LGBTQ and other marginalized people.”

"I started doubting because of “how the church treated people of the LGBTQ community and anyone who didn’t dress/think/act/look like them.”

“I couldn’t understand why God would create LGBTQ people in a form my church claimed he hated.”

“The first thing that challenged my viewpoint directly was meeting LGBTQ people and seeing that they were kind, thoughtful and deserving of respect.”

“The first thing was noticing how what Christians preached/practiced didn’t seem to align with that I knew to be the character of God, including views on the LGBTQ community, immigration, adoption, mental health issues, ‘mission work,’ and just general treatment of others.”

I don't think that the survey was a tick box question and answer, giving the people the chance to answer according to the list. Reading the article, it seems, the questions were posed generally, and the written answers were then assigned to the groups afterwards, by the compilers. That is more refined than the blunt answers, but also more open to interpretation by those running the survey. Therefore if they had a presumption in favour of, say, the LBGTQ answer, it would probably weight the results, and given that it was a Baptist group running the survey, who knows ?

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Absolutely LOVE this post. I'm a big fan of stats, and the article is well written.

Why did i leave Catholicism and religion all together.

There are MANY reasons that came my way over the years, and i think Seinfeld coined it perfectly when talking to Elaine and George about how breaking up is similar to "pushing over a coke machine; it doesn't happen at once, you have to rock it back and forth and then it goes over."

It comes down to questioning what I was indoctrinated with. However much that is determined as a sin:

“I would rather have questions that can't be answered than answers that can't be questioned.”
― Richard P. Feynman

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I guess "It's all a bunch of complete nonsense" would fall under "Intellectual Integrity" I'm surprised I'm in such a small minority 7%.

BD66 Level 8 Mar 27, 2023

I'm guessing these are people who have recently left their church, so not quite so cynical about religion as some of us.

I don't think that the survey was a tick box question and answer, giving the people the chance to answer according to the list. Reading the article, it seems, the questions were posed generally, and the written answers were then assigned to the groups afterwards, by the compilers. That is more refined than the blunt answers, but also more open to interpretation by those running the survey. Therefore if they had a presumption in favour of say the LBGTQ answer, it would probably weight the results, and given that it was a Baptist group running the survey, who knows ?

That was what I was looking for. We didn't understand science or mental illness back then...

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I really don't care much. Knowing how our modern day bible came to be is enough for me. I don't need religion and I do not want religious politicians. They should stop talking about gods.

And the bible.

How did the modern day bible come about?

@WayneDalton By councils and decree some 300 plus years after the time of Jesus. It was decided to make a big bible book out of many smaller books and they wanted a beginning and an ending. Let that sink in and you can easily imagine our crank nutjobs today.

@DenoPenno I have often said to people that I didn't believe a religion based on a book cobbled together by a group of biased men with agendas to protect.

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Thought spiritual would be a higher percentage because more people say they are spiritual rather than religious. I was only a Christian for 3 months so freedom is no. 1 by far . Can't let any big group box my mind, body and spirit in.

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Well I don't know how Real is these numbers, but what I can say is; beyond of what LGBTQ really is (specially the BTQ...etc!), nowadays it is just a social trend, like a fashion trend! it's a joke to see 1.71% said Moral Misalignment and the same unnoticeable numbers for the other General Reasons and 24.76% of the same population said we left Christianity for LGBTQ!

Diaco Level 7 Mar 27, 2023

I don't think that the survey was a tick box question and answer, giving the people the chance to answer according to the list. Reading the article, it seems, the questions were posed generally, and the written answers were then assigned to the groups afterwards, by the compilers. That is more refined than the blunt answers, but also more open to interpretation by those running the survey. Therefore if they had a presumption in favour of the LBGTQ answer, it would probably weight the results, and given that it was a Baptist group running the survey, who knows ?

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Interesting how politics is so Large in the graft of reasons why leaving and political alignment is near nill lol on what's gained

I noticed that too -- I guess after they left it was no longer foremost in their mind as much as the other freedoms they felt. Puzzling.

@Julie808 thinking about how the politicians are, that no matter what party is religious. So maybe that's why .. we appear to have been led to think the Democrats are the mostly non religious people and the Republicans are super religious people

@laidback1 Yes I think most politicians like to portray themselves as people of faith, but some just talk about it more than others.

@Julie808 yes definitely, it's all a show the religious beliefs and political persuasions , they're nearly all working together. I think there's very few outsider rebels with intelligence that are speaking out what they truly believe.. I respect RFK Jr ... & Dennis K (can't spell) & Ron Paul & very few others,i voted for Jill Stein not trump,trump is an unwitting chaos agent puppet

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