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My wife passed away last month. We had separated a month before. I am lonely and looking for the companionship of an attractive and educated woman.

DrBobMDPhD 2 Dec 9
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I think it is a good thing to identify your needs... there are many types of relationships they don't all need to be long term. Perhaps a looking for someone who wants to share some social events and see how things go it doesn't need to be fuelled with expectations of 'for ever after?' Good luck

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I'm really sorry for your loss. I agree with most people here. You need to take some time. You are going through the process of grief and right now you need to adjust to it. There is no quick fix. My wife left me in January of this year. I know it's not the same, but close. I went through depression, anger, and pain for months. I am just now starting to get past it.

Here is an article on the seven stages of grief. I hope this helps. In addition to that, there are a lot of people here that have your back. Post away or pm someone.

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I am sorry to say,a woman wants and deserves to be appreciated for more than her looks and brains ,you left out ,compassionate, kind and nurturing,feminine,good sense of humor ,has confidence In herself ,and is open minded ,to name a few. It’s qualities and traits that are important ,look for these and I am sure you will find happiness.

I was thinking the same thing. Thank you.

Your post only got one like from a guy .This is not a positive indication

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so you've been single for two months? IMHO you need to give yourself some time to grieve before you jump into another relationship. Take time to discover who you are now and what you really want. Spending time alone is actually good for you.

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You might want to add a pic to your bio.

I absolutely agree. Especially if he specifies attractive. No woman wants to talk to a faceless avatar.

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She's got to be attractive. Define attractive.

it's your own idea of attractive

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