I just can’t do it lol.
Forgiveness is for the benefit of the forgiver. Not the forgiven. The forgiven can not be permitted close enough to repeat the offence. Forgiven does not mean one can repeat the slight. Thusly I forgive my parents because "they no not what they do", but they can not ever be in my life again being as toxic as they are. And unrepentant of ever asking for my forgiveness.
Forgiveness lets you let go of anger and hurt
Forgetfulness allows you to be exploited again
One can forgive and recall, forgetfulness is not required or desired
I simply stick with the native American phrase ' no-person'.
No. That's who they are. They don't deserve forgiveness.
Ellatynemouth of course, they don't deserve forgiveness but you deserve the quiet.
"The fool forgets but does not forgive
An average person forgives and forgets
The wise forgive, but they do not forget."
If someone who has deliberately wronged me makes a genuine apology, I'll try to forgive them - though of course, some things can never be forgiven. But, I'll never entirely trust them again.
I once had to explain to an adult friend why simply apologizing didn't fix things. I ended up breaking a plate and telling them to apologize to the plate. Sadly, they finally got it.
Some people, I tell ya.
Theres levels of 2 faced people. There are the catfish people with awesome pictures of themselves on their photo page. Theres guys pretending to be girls on here. Should i go on? Can you be more specific?
Well,...... one side of me says yes,...... but the other,......
Ealk away ther is know way to change anything !
Yes and no. I pretend that everything is okay when I run into them as to not cause a scene.