i have stayed for love when otherwise tempted to move.

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I have never been faced with the prospect, so it is hard to say.

nope

Yup! Definitely.

As is, I can't. Somewhere down the line, maybe. Now though, not in the cards. Life is too complicated right now for that to even begin to be a possibility, not that I don't want out of this state ASAP. Now if it was someone who was "The One" then once life became possible I would go for it, but only when it's viable of an option and the groundwork laid out.

I don't know, depends on the circumstances. At the moment, I can't.

I have and it worked out well for me... 18+ years later and no regrets!

I can't even if I wanted to.

We are mostly a virtual entity here. No body, no possessions, no personal life....only thoughts. How can someone become the perfect person when all we get is digital thoughts?

Depends on where I would need to move to. It probably won't work out, so I don't want to get stuck somewhere I hated or didn't like.
Detroit? No way.

Yep

The only reason not to would be money.

No. With my luck I'd move and we'd be broken up in like a week. Then I'm stuck whereever...

N.O.P.E.

A “chance” for love? I’m all for taking risks for loved ones. If it ain’t already something, tread carefully. Perfect on a site can change quickly in person.

If the place is nice, I can find a job there and not be economically dependent, why not?

Can't afford it.

Yes

Not at this time. I take care of my ninth year old mom. If I left she would have no one.

I just built my dream house.... So I would not be up for this.

It is not likely to happen. My mortgage is less than $200 and that makes it special.

At one point I surely would, but now I would not. I own my house, and my elderly mother, and grandmother, are living in the same city, and it's up to me to help out.

Yes of course. My kids still live in the area and my friends are here, but they can call me.
Of course, the destination has to be something we could agree on.
I'm holding out for a beach house in Fiji where I can fish in the surf. There will be a waiter who will carry a pitcher of Coconut Margaritas down to my spot every couple of hours.
Any takers?

Yup, im in this situation right now, but i have about nine months to think about it.

It's not wise for a woman to ever move to be with a man.
If things don't work out, she's already lost her former job, is out the moving costs, and could suddenly find herself broke and homeless, and having to depend on charity of friends and relatives to establish herself again someplace else, pay deposits, insurance, etc.

If a man wants to be with a lover, he can move near the woman.