I recently lost someone I cared for very much, and I'm swarmed by religious family members who find solace in the idea that she is in heaven and they will see her again. I find it difficult to vent my feelings to anyone, and worry about being alienated if I state my beliefs. I also don't want to bring up my attitude toward religion and take away their comfort, but I'm struggling to find my own. What are some good ways to cope with grief when you don't believe in a higher power? So far I've joined a support group on Facebook, done some writing, and just tried to enjoy the memories. But it feels like it just keeps coming.