"If I kissed you, you would be my lover forever," a man bragged this week.
"Nice try," I replied. "Men typically think they are great lovers. Delusional."
I looked at his grungy, dark teeth and fat belly. A motorcycle enthusiast, he doesn't exercise. He has a terrible diet, is always overweight and has diabetes. We have nothing in common.
For years, he's had the hots for me. "You have a beautiful body," he says. Ugh.
We volunteer for North Central Washington Democrats. I have known him for years.
Hit the brakes, buddy!
I have had this type of experience quite a few times! A guy once said to me, "If we had sex, you would never want it to stop." Dude, like I would even let you touch me! SOME men cannot seem to understand that if they find a woman attractive or desirable, it does not mean automatic reciprocation. I dated my last boyfriend off and on for a couple of years, but when his weight ballooned to over 300 pounds, I no longer found him sexually attractive, but it was not the only reason I broke off the relationship. He still lets me know that even though we are not "dating," he is quite willing to have sex; it NEVER occurs to this man that I do not want to have sex with him.