Mat Boggs needs to have a youtube channel for men.

You have to love yourself first more than anything. It doesn't have to do with arrogance or narcissism. In my opinion is the healthiest way because you're ready to love everyone. Of course I might be wrong...I'm just a man

There are some good ones out there, they are hiding and we need to find them.. before they disappear for good.

In general, the only men who "fall in love" with women totally, ready to give their lives to protect and care for them, and are faithful to them, are cis, hetero men.

Cis, hetero women are, in turn, attracted to these macho men, since statistics show that people at the extreme ends of the gender spectrum (the most macho men, and femme women) are the most successful at long term relationships and raising progeny. However the statistics also show that these people average the lowest IQs.

Women with high levels of male traits, however, can be attracted to men with high levels of female traits. Statistically, high IQ, creative people are androgynous, but often can't sustain long term relationships, and only have children accidentally, as is common with movie stars, writers, famous directors, etc..

If you are a woman who is attracted to intelligent, talented men, you will likely be attracted to men who have unstable female traits..being picky, critical, moody, jealous, prone to leaving relationships, etc.

Good luck with that. I am one of those highly male-ish women who is attracted to talented, female-ish men, and, so far, it's never worked out for long.

There's a big difference between being self-centered and having a centered self. So many people don't get that. I'm sorry for what you're experiencing. It's a weird dating pool in which we're wading these days.

Decent men are out there. We just get passed over for the studs wearing the black hats and driving the big black 4x4 trucks.

you need a new outlook

I just have to say "That's funny"

A bit of self love is necessary; however, too much is a pain as it seems you have discovered. I wish i had an answer for you as to hiw to avoid those guys but i think its hust a hit and miss proposition, unfortunately.

I love myself but not in a narcissistic way. It's a very long story, but the end result is I feel unconditional love for myself, and because of that, I can also feel it for others.

Keep looking. There are good men out there.

Top 10’signs you might be dating a narcissist:

10 He says: “It’s going to be Huuge!”

9 He physically moves you out of the way so he can be in front of the camera

8. He has you sign a none disclosure contract after having sex.

7 He brags about the size of his hands.

6 He spends an unusual amount of time posting to Twitter during your date.

5 He builds a wall on his plate between his gravey and potatoes.

4 He says his daughter is hot and he would consider dating her.

3 He says he is a “Super genius”.

2 He says he is going to create a Space Force and it will be great and the best Space Force evAR!

1 He grabs you by the pu$$y.

I haven't always loved myself but I definitely do now

Do YOU love YOURself ? And if the answer is yes - you might want to ask yourself why you pick/tolerate those kind of men ...

A good time to be fussy !

Now Sondy, a person has to love themselves before they can give love. Unless they are some kind of narcissist creep.

It's like trying to sell something. You have to get through your quota of "no's" before you find a "yes". And persistence counts!

Be Nice!

Lol poor thing. There's gotta be some good ones out there somewhere