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How old were you when you got married for the first time?

"For many people, regardless of sexual orientation, a wedding is no longer the first step into adulthood that it once was, but, often, the last. It is a celebration of all that two people have already done, unlike a traditional wedding, which was a celebration of what a couple would do in the future.

Consistent with this shift in meaning, different-sex couples, like the many of the same-sex couples who have married recently, are starting their marriages later in their lives. According to the Census Bureau, the median age at first marriage—the age at which half of all marriages occur—was 27.4 for women and 29.5 for men in 2017. That’s higher than at any time since the Census began keeping records in 1890."

[theatlantic.com]

VictoriaNotes 9 Mar 24
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I was 24. I realize now I was too young. I would advise anyone to acomplish some goals and experience some failures first. Get to know who you are and what is best for you.

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I was 30

Phin Level 6 Mar 24, 2018
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I was 22 and it lasted 26 years.

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I don’t remember, maybe 24 or 25. Not doing that shit again.

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My first marriage happened way too young. I was 28 with a maturity level of an eight year old. I think I've finally caught up with my age.

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All of 22… With ‘single daughters’ both older than that, I’ve let them know how pleased I am.. Their mother had been 19 ..nearly children ~

Varn Level 8 Mar 24, 2018
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I was 19, in the Army, got married in Leominster, Mass by a JP that was also an undertaker. He was 28, the marriage lasted less than 2 years. When I married the father of my children I was 25.

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25 in 1990... Divorced two months before my 30th birthday.

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20 years old... 1st last and only...

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21...

Hutch Level 7 Mar 24, 2018
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I was very very young, just turned 19, and pregnant. Lasted 2 yrs, doomed from the onset.

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I was 25 when I married for the first time, in 1962.

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About 32 I think and naively I thought it would save our relationship which is ridiculous and I don't believe in marriage.

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A mere stripling of 21. Lasted for a wonderful 26 years .

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I was in my early 30’s

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  1. btw the date was 07/07/07 and it didn't last 5 years, so much for 7 being a lucky number!! Although perhaps it was, I got two amazing daughters and it didn't last the rest of life 🙂

Glass half full I guess lol

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I was married at 18 years far too young but our marriage lasted 30 years so not too bad...Difficult at first for me being on my own after we seperated but have learnt alot about myself and am happy in my skin..

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25 and it was a mistake

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43 and still single. I can't even get a date. Too shy and when I do force myself to speak to a lady I like I'm every kind of irritating awkward. A familiar story.

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I was 40. The marriage gave us 3 wonderful children but ended in divorce after 10 years.

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Bad mistake except for my daughter. She didn't cry when she was born - she growled.

Only one thing we agreed on: When the vicar came round to arrange the date for her christening we both agreed that we would wait until she could make her own mind up. My daughter is a fervent atheist.

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