I'm not going to judge her negatively after she made me smile.

With others? I culdn't possibly know. With me? Wouldn't happen unless we possibly developed a closeness and understanding of one another through long-term, non-dating contacts such as general social, volunteering or work etc. That is how sexual intimacy happens with me.

Coitus? With a stranger it is slightly improved mutual masturbation leaving an even emptier freeling afterward, somewhat like other addictions. It is, in my view, misnamed 'sex' and is rooted in secondary drives which range from relatively harmless outlets to very destructive.

Theoretically I would, and I have. I would watch her closely to make sure her impaired judgment doesn't affect her in other areas though.

Sex with me, or with someone else?

Am. She gets more than me.

That she'd had sex with me on the first date wouldn't even come into it....
After all, I'd had sex with her on the first date.
Now, if she'd had sex with someone else on our first date, that would influence my decision

As I get older I'm trying to slow down that 'get to know each other' phase and having sex right away would not be conducive to an LTR. I wouldn't hold it against her though. I want to be with a woman who enjoys and wants sex.

If I like her enough to go that far that fast, I'm not throwing it away.

Turned out ok for me. Ahem