This site has been a serious disappointment and at the same time confirmation of what i have learned in years past. Not so much the site but the participants.
The truth is this. Most people on this site are seriously lacking in ability of an adult relationship. Most people on this site are in denial of the societal bias that exists against men and the destructive consequenses caused by that mistaken way of thinking.
What i am saying is most people here fail to see the corrosive and destructive results of feminism. Most people here are toxic toward men and long term relationships because of the lies spread by feminist propaganda.
Really sad because i had mistakenly thought that atheists were smarter than average and more humanistic.
DUDE!!! Get a grip. You need to reevaluate yourself if EVERYBODY is rejecting you. Have you entertained the thought that you might be a huge part of your problem. There are some really great women on here, but with your attitude, I don't see them giving you a second look.
I bet you have been a serious disappointment to many women as well.
Makes me wish my husband of 38 years was still alive. He had some really fun and creative ways to explain feminism and the joys of being married to a feminist to people like you.One of his favorites was "You know women are really people and things are always better when you treat them like they are people."
I have been on this site since June 2018, have reached level 9 and accumulated over 700,000 points, but I’ve never once even seen your name until now. How then can you label me as being part of something you consider to be toxic to men, when I have had intelligent intercourse with both men and women almost every day here for almost two years and never heard or seen any reference to toxicity until I read this today. Goodness knows where you’ve been and what conversations you have been having, and with whom. I can only say you must have joined the wrong groups and have been mixing with the wrong people if you have such a poor opinion of us.
I'm guessing you are striking out and needing to blame the women on this site for being too smart to accept misogyny in their romantic partnerships. Men who have respect for women are treated with respect by those women. Those who don't, well, they become unhappy ranters against modern society which promotes long overdue equality. Strong women rock, and you can either adapt to that consensus or be unhappy. Your choice.
Most women I encounter on this site are sweet , loving and smart . And I ve been here for 2 years .
I don’t hate men at all . But I am 49, divorced and living alone for 13 yrs , I am tired , I like been alone , and my work makes me happier than dating . How that makes me toxic or unable to have relationships Bcz I am a woman .
Every human has a story . Good or bad , smart or stupid , not for anyone to decide . If their lives don’t hurt yours , what’s the problem man ?
This site gave me an opportunity to converse here and in real life w many interesting people , men and women . Some I ve met in person too , and we had great time .
U can certainly have any opinion u want . I am here just to tell u that any woman that doesn’t care for dating , is not Bcz she is evil or toxic , or a twisted feminist , or hating men .
That’s all .
LMAO if you honestly think that toxicity towards men has to do with feminism, you have no damn clue what feminism actually is. Usually people have negative assessments of men due to bad experiences with men and then applying it to all or most men. Do not allow men that hate women to define feminism as women that hate men. Feminism is about the social, economic and political equality among the sexes. Nothing about being toxic towards men.
Atheist women tend to be more feminist, since we don't buy into the patriarchal Biblical crap that has oppressed women for millenia. We aren't as naive as many women who can be manipulated into thinking subjugation should just be their lot in life, and many of us can spot an incel in just one post.
You put yourself in a bad position by the nature of your comment. I haven't found this site to be ultra feminist. You must be ultra anti feminist. You shouldn't say that people who disagree aren't smart or humanistic. Don't judge. This is a major Trump hater site, but that would be evidence that atheists are "smarter than average and more humanistic" I will say this much, people on this site do pile on sometimes. You did set yourself up for that tho. It sounds like you want to look for dating on this site, I don't think that agnostic.com is good for that. A little secret, most women lean towards feminism whether they are atheist or not.
You can define "smart" however you want, and then pick some group of people and try to decide who is "smarter than average". But the fact remains, however people on this site score in your arbitrary system, they are all smart in some other arbitrary system. And they like eachother because they have something in common. Adapt or look for something else.
Interesting aside: if this site is over run with lying feminist propaganda, is there another site that isn't? Or, is there anywhere in the world that does have the open minded women you're looking for? Because I'm guessing that you think "feminist propaganda" is everywhere, and somehow that's the reason you don't get along with women... not because women have the agency to make decisions on their own. The fact that as a general group, women arent falling over each other to connect with you, might not have anything to do with them, but maybe that you believe propaganda about women that isnt true, and they're not willing to deal with your "educational needs" in that area
Modern society is disappointing.. Most ‘around here’ have been either fighting it, or it’s victim ...for perhaps a lifetime. That makes many of us fighters, which appears to spill over
I’m sure we’ve all had serious difficulties finding a mate within societies permeated by religion. I have. You begin to give up, assume most are tainted with some degree of religion ..and just let those who aren’t either appear, or not.
I suspect many around here have given up looking, so have allowed themselves to revert to the childish ‘boy vs. girl’ stuff that appears inherent in humanity. Maybe it’s easier to blame our inability to mesh on the other gender…
I’ve also concluded, our overpopulation and the stresses of ‘making it’ has opened a myriad of divisions.. The men vs women aspect appears an unconscious form of birth control. Bickering people blaming the world's problems on the other’s gender may be all it takes to lower our numbers. Applying, as usual, to the ‘educated or aware’ portions of humanity.
I get your anger, often feeling it too.. Glad my procreation days are behind me, and, having put some magnificent daughters into the mix (both taken)
Yes, the longer I have been on this site, the more I realize that intelligent individuals with some form of common sense are an extinct on this planet, let alone this site!!!
Feminism is not the problem!!!
Tribalism is the new social norm, it uses anyone weaker than their huddle masses to victimize!!!
Older men like older women are seen as nice and stealing the resources that should belong to the young!!!
Remember do not trust anyone over thirty!!!
All that did was show us how corrupt so many institutions had become!!
So who do they blame for their failures and greed any man or woman who does not conform to their social norms!!!
Men seem to be the new victims, especially white men who are just to ignorant about the reality of life, just look who became our death president!!!
Victim hood has become the call sign of the obstructionist republican fascist!!!
The American society has NO bias against white men. Feminism tries to level the playing field.
If you are set against women's rights, equal pay and proper treatment, that explains why you fail at relationships.
Learn to be a decent human being, and your chances for an "adult relationship" might increase.