Got a message on Agnostic.com from a guy who claims to be in Arizona. His only photo shows him naked from the waist up. In his thirties? No written profile. Immediately I thought he was a scammer.
HIM: Hi pretty, how are you doing?
ME: Put some clothes on. Not interested. We live too far apart to develop a relationship. Good luck with your search. Kathleen
HIM: I guess you don't like me.
Distance does not matter in a relationship and i hope you know that.
I must say i really like you.
ME: (getting sarcastic) What's your plan? Fly to Wenatchee, Washington every week so we can get to know each other?
"Distance doesn't matter" is a fantasy that rarely works out. I don't even know your first name or age. Kathleen
Blocked him. brushes off hands
Yeah, I saw his “I’m new here” post and made a remark about the weather where he was. I'm new here.
@MsKathleen
Must have been another shirtless douchebag.
The guy who messaged me has not posted anything.
Shirtless photo? Nope. I feel the same way when women are too immodest, let alone shirtless.
Shirtless photos are the hallmark of a douchebag.
Context is everything. If he was hiking or on a beach, a shirtless photo makes sense.
I 100% agree with you on the distance issue. It doesn't work, I won't even consider it. I won't relocate, and if a guy tells me he is willing to, I tell him to show his commitment by looking for jobs in the area. And when a male addresses me as "Hi Pretty" that tells me he has a script that he is cutting/pasting, lazy and unimaginative bastard.
I got one from Arizona as well just his face in the pic. Told me I looked good in my picture????? Given my pic is a baby gorilla I am not sure how to take that. Yes the baby gorilla is cute but not sure how that reflects on me being "good". My other pictures I have posted are of animals, scenery and my crotcheting not sure it he has seen those.
I did not bother to reply.
Hi, how are you doing?
I'm here in search of a soul mate.
I came across your Profile, I must say your profile sounds great and also your pictures caught my attention too because you look pretty good yourself.
Aww, he is from Az. so he's gotta be a nice guy.