You meet your ideal mate. Only thing is they have this kink...
Which one would you be most willing to indulge?
(Not all of these are the full definitions of the fetish. Some are specifically what they would expect of you while having the particular kink).
I do a stand-up comedy part time. This bit about fetishism would be a blast.
Done
I chose furries.
-The toe thing grossed me out. Feet are gross.
-I’m fat enough.
-I have other places to stick it, than the pits.
-Furries. Who doesn’t like doggie style?
-I’d be worried the bugs would get into the wrong places.
-I already have to wear glasses. And that’s gross.
-This was my second choice. But I am not into flashing foreplay, but bent over a balcony? Yeah.
-If I want to have sex with a women, I’ll fuck one. If I want to have sex with a man, I’ll ride one.
I would do almost anything for love and aim to please my partner, Must be kinkier than most of you, still most on this I am out.
Foot fetishism - clean -In
Feederism - fat- Out
Maschalagnia - clean armpits-In
Furries - dress up as mighty mouse with cat woman on Halloween- sexy- In
Formicophilia - bugs are not sexy-Out
Oculolinctus - licked a few eyeballs by accident, but not on purpose. Out
Exhibitionist - can get arrested-Out.
Transvestism - too gay- Out. Yet could accept being reincarnated as a lesbian.
None of them. If I hear the word fetish from a guy, I run. Lol.
there are people who get off on their partners being terminally ill or missing limbs or want to crap on each other. I like good old vanilla sex and some nice underwear etc myself. is it a fetish being turned on by intelligence?
Intelligence is the new sexy. As they say, the brain is the biggest sex organ. (Double application of a metaphor, I know...)
maybe it is
Sapiosexual. I have a streak of it myself.
I voted the last one, as I'm big on costumes. And years ago, I gave a party, for no particular occasion. The men came dressed as women - the women, as men.
It was quite awesome, and interestingly revealing. I heard men complaining about their pantyhose, and how uncomfortable it was walking in heels. And my mustache tickled - though I really liked the way I looked.
People came on to one another as the gender they were dressed in - thus women became more aggressive. Fun to watch.
And by the end of the night (and I don't drink - mind you) , a man, dressed as a nurse - who was also sporting big red beads around his neck, and a full beard - looked perfectly normal to me !
A grand time, truly ...
not a great thought for me being in a G-string with a hairy nut hanging out each side but I quite like a woman dressed in a nice suit
@LeighShelton It's called shaving. Try it. lol
would shaved nuts look better then?
perhaps consider something with more coverage ?
So, myy thoughts on this list:
I don't think I have any legit fetishes. Some kink fantasies, perhaps, but no outright fetishes that are required for stimulation or satisfaction.
I draw a distinction between a fetish and a kink in that a fetish is required for sexual arousal and/or gratification, whereas a kink is totally optional.
I was planning on saying that anyway. I was just expounding on what you had said.
And you're right. A lot of people use the terms interchangeably, not realizing that there's a difference.
This is funny,Armpits is a new one me ,but this is more of a male on female act I take it...though I stand to be corrected.
I did have a girlfriend who like her closed eyelids licked,open eyeballs being licked is very strange though,maybe you have that wrong.
Personally I love bear shoulders..but now we going into too much detail......
Back in the 70's college GF used to suck my eyeballs everywhere we were... first and only one, 4.0 grade 18 year old ahead of her times. Her Pleasure, not mine. Experimentation, I dated exhibitionists but who hasn't? Now My "Me Too" moment... as a Cable/Network Installer often enough customers will ask you to take off your boots or to wear bonnies... this individual I was setting up his internet router asked me to take out my boots to keep his just moved in carpet clean. I did but after setting it up the router he tried to kiss my feet (I had socks on of course). Strange!!! The first website he accessed to test the internet was a foot fetish site... Then Offered me money for taking my socks off. Last time I felt like going Medieval on somebody. I declined and he don't know how close he was of being hurt Badly. My job was more important to me than giving him a whup with all the tools in my tool bag. Now the story did not ended there.... Because Life is Ridiculously Funny like that... 3 days prior I had signed a contract and give rent money etc to move on the same apartment complex. Maybe that is what kept me from violence. I couldn't believe that... I did reported the individual to my supervisor right away. He will be Flag in the system. Life never stops from amusing me. he, he, ha, he, ha, ha. I am very secure and comfortable speaking of embarrassing moments and I have a truck load I guess. With the Right Partner in Life and Love The Universe Expands beyond Comprehension!!!! But got to be the Right Partner.
Hahaha. thanks for the laugh
Ugh with this. I think this is to mask insecurities or lack of fundamentals or something. Id freak out if someone tried to lick my eyeballs. i know people wil be all " don't kink shame", but really..
well I didn't freak out and she did it everywhere in public.
no miss, I don't mean you specifically, but more this fetishism thing in general. It seems to take the focus off the person. and the interaction is all about dressing as elves or something. I just think that people should be in touch with themselves first and THEN its ok to play Avengers or something. Its easy to get carried away with it. relationships should be real. people should be able to get it on without a steamer trunk full of props, or a unicorn suit, every once in a while.
Oh My! That seems safe enough... ok, whats the hidden meaning? Yikes!
That's kind of cool. Ild be right there in the right place with my wife of course..lol. no guys here!
I, uh... well, I think... um, yeah....
Nope.
@silvereyes If Ms. Perfection wants to share her Green Eggs and Ham, I’ll bite. The outcome, however, may not be so appetizing.
The foot one, for whatever reason, bothers me the most. Just YUCK. And I definitely couldn't do the eyeball one, but I could handle any of the others.
I selected furries as the one I'd be most willing to tolerate since I'm a bit of a furry fan myself.
And my only qualm with transvestism... I am transgender. And my identity isn't a fetish. I realize that this IS a legitimate fetish for some people, but I would have a hard time being in a relationship with someone who reduced my reality to a sexual fetish.