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Sadness is on my mind today. My darling husband past away this past Friday, June 22. We were together 15 wonderful years. It wasn't easy finding a "free thinker", but I finally did, in Lincoln, Nebraska of all places. We spent a lot of time together this last 6 months as his illness continued to take over his body and health. He past away at home as he wanted. He was my best friend, husband and fantastic "papa" to my grandchildren. Life will be so empty without him next to me. Thank goodness I have my wonderful family to lean on. Thanks for letting me share.

Redheadedgammy 9 June 30
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Thank you everyone for the beautiful and loving responses. I am so touched by the kindness of strangers. My heart is aching, so thank you all for giving me a boost. The memorial service is Tuesday at 4 pm. Please think about Richard at that time.

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Life is very tough. At least you were together, rather than having never met.

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My condolences on your loss. I know how hard it can be to find folks who don't prescribe to the midwestern, old time religion norms. It's hard enough to find friends who stear clear of that stuff in Nebraska, let along someone you click well enough with to spend a long time with.

You'll probably need some time to yourself right now, but when the dust settles and the time feels right, get back out there again.

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So very sorry for your loss.

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My Condolences

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So sorry. He sounds like a lot to be without. I hope you find comfort.

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My deepest condolences for your loss. May you be comforted by the outpouring of love surrounding you.

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My condolences at the loss of your beloved husband, best friend and partner.
Your life is much richer having had him to love, be loved and enjoy. Time will heal your grief and he will always live in the wonderful memories you made together.
I wish you well in life's journey and success in finding what you are searching for here and in your life.

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I am so sorry. Xoxo ❤

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Contact a Hospice,they will help you,greatly,telling you what to expect and arrange in most cases grief counseling.

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I want to be supportive but have no words that will make it better. I feel your loss as I may be going through the process myself.

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Maybe related,but on three different occasions in two separate locations miles apart,I've heard my late wife's voice, waking me from a deep sleep by calling my name,not scary.Perhaps wishful thoughts? I dunno,she's been gone now 9 months,I've heard my name "Mike"......

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For me,27 years with my loving wife,the last no so good for my poor wife, the cancers were not caught in time,so even with radiation and later chemotherapy,it was too late. My sympathies to you.......

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My condolences to you. He sounds like a lovely man and you had some priceless wonderful years together.

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May I offer you my condolences.

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Sorry for your loss ...

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So sorry for your loss

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I'm so sorry for your loss.

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So sorry for your sadness... Peace

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My condolences. Hang in there, seek out friends to help you through.

t1nick Level 8 June 30, 2018
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I am truly sorry for your loss!

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So very sorry for your loss. Hang in there.

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I am so very sorry. Please heal soon.

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I'm very sorry for your loss. Losing ones lover and best friend is tough.

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