I really hope things brighten up for you and the boys.

Damn.... I hate to go through divorces. I'm a 2 time vetern. Had the camper too...

Sorry to hear that Pepper I hope things get better soon!

Sorry, breaking up is hard to do. Hard to stay focused, hard to stay peaceful, kind or especially in a loving place with someone you’ve invested a lot of time love & energy in.
I know. It can be important and agreeable & for the best , but it’s a lot of emotional work.
Working on possibly similar issues with my best friend of eight years.
So, hugs.

Divorce... the final frontier... wishing you the best of future in your new life. I let my wife had everything, including the house we built together from scratch. She sold it about 3-4 weeks ago. There was a moment I thought about buying it myself but I don't like the city where the house is so being a gypsy as I am... I needed no anchor for this vessel. All my life been comfortable letting go. Even 19 years of marriage... were buried.

there is always cabin rentals

The bright side? You have some fantastic memories. ❤

Letting go is difficulty, and is rarely a "rip off the bandaid" process, but instead a slow one - at least in my experience. I was reflecting with a friend just today that there is a probably still a part of me in there somewhere that is still attached, at some small level, to my ex-wife who I haven't spoken to in years. I think when you love someone, a part of you is always going remain attached, even if it doesn't make sense to be together any longer. I sometimes think of the detaching process as being like a thick rope, where the thread pop one by one. Each time one pops, it stings a little bit.

Sorry about your trailer

Pain and sadness often accompanies change. Perhaps in the future you'll wander in your own (more manageable) travel trailer , on to new adventures !

You cannot love somebody if they do not want to be loved.

I'm very sorry you are going through this. Xoxo

Went to the local Music Festival here and encountered two old band mates I had not seen in years. One was married and doing well much to my surprise, the other was getting a divorce and was miserable to say the least. He had caused it and acknowledged it as such. As a musician I've met countless divorced people, some I knew, most I did not. All had a sense of sadness about them but most were out to meet someone else and carry on. Having said that it's better than the hell my one set of grandparents lived with, even as a toddler I could sense the hatred in the air. Same for my parents, they would not have lasted a year in modern times. Very sad, but still better to move on.

Change is often hard, we seek stability out of instinct if nothing else. Getting past feelings of personal failure took me a long time after I got divorced, one assumes that if they had just done something better, tried harder perhaps then it wouldn't have happened but that's a lie we tell ourselves, things change, people change and the person you are perfect with in your 20's is the person holding you back or crushing your sense of self worth in your 30's. Ride it out, try to remember the good and learn from the bad rather than forget it, it's all part of being a whole person and a happy one. I probably should sell the Winnebago we toured all over Mexico in for 2 years, it's just gathering dust in the back corner of the property.