Make other plans, if he can’t commit now he won’t in the future

Birthdays are high stakes. That's a lot of pressure for a new relationship.

Having said that, no one owes you anything. It's a cold world out there. Ghosting is how relationships end these days.

Happy belated birthday! You know, I can see both sides of the issue. If he doesn't want to commit to a date, say goodbye to him. But I have personally had women get mad at me for not keeping in touch on a daily basis when we've only been on 1 or 2 dates without any kind of talk about commitment. Maybe he's gun-shy? My experience is that women what a commitment before they're willing to make a commitment, therefore I'm gun-shy.

Bail on this limp noodle. get the hint already. Do not pressure men. More than anything they hate pressure & ultimatums. Get out there & dance. It's your birthday. or go to a quiet museum. It's your birthday. So it means nothing to anyone but you.

Call a good friend and go out and have fun.

You are much too good for this man. Forget him and do something fabulous (alone or with a friend). It's my opinion that if he contacts you now you should politely (or impolitely) tell him to fuck off. He missed out. You're moving on to something (or someone) better. Honestly, if he can't respect you enough at this stage to respect that you might want to know whether you have a date for your birthday then the future doesn't look real bright to me. You deserve more. Oh yes, happy birthday!

Literally forget him. Buy some clothes/fragrance...whatever floats your boat, and hang out with your real world friends or family.

You just met him. I would not ask another question until he responds to the current question. You may scare him away with too many questions and too much pressure when you just met him. If you want his attention stop trying so hard. Don't make yourself too available.