? This is rife.
(((( hugs )))

When I was on POF/OKC, I’d frequently get messages from women, usually elderly, who wanted someone to worship Jesus together with them. And of course my profile made it clear that I was s liberal atheist. I concluded that a lot of people just used a shotgun approach, sending out tons of messages and hoping for a few positive responses, the Spam approach to dating. Best to just ignore them!

As rants go yours is pretty good, all the more impressive because there aren't many swear words in it. It's also a shame that the blokes this is about aren't the ones who are replying, we all get it lol

I've only had one guy, and I'm not into guys, who was interested in oral sex. Now I will grant you that I don't specifically say I'm not interested in oral but it does say 'here for community', I can only think community to him means a blow job? And besides my idea of oral does not involve the male todger of another bloke.

Still I think the ladies get a lot more ignorance than us guys so maybe a blocking frenzy is in order, I also haven't looked up sapiosexual but I will at some point, but the chances of us going on a date etc are somewhere around zero so it doesn't matter what it means lol

I am just glad I am too old for all that bullshit from men. I am seventy three, widowed and now happily single, most definitely not wanting to attract men of any age. I wish you luck in your quest for someone compatible.

Sounds like just about every problem a person can have with online dating. I think much of the problem (besides reading comprehension skills, which are quite low, your experience a case in point) is that between the number of people who are currently married (at least 25% or so of all online profiles, and by married I mean 'looking for an affair' and not separated and trying to move on), too afraid to actually meet someone, or too into thinking it's only going to be some sort of hookup.

Wow! Well I'm not here for dating and in fact held off joining this site for a while thinking it was only a dating site so I specifically don't check out profiles (unless hit by mistake by my big thumbs, now where am - and how do I get back to where I was again). However I must check out your profile because I've never seen a pink pussy hat, especially someone wearing one lol. Io don't understand the my genders need to send dick picks, or even spend a moment to get to know about someone first. So I will wish you luck and hopefully guys will understand your very legitimate opinion.

Don’t lose faith....we all aren’t that bad

I had to Google Sapiosexual which ironically due to the intelligence clause immediately disqualifies me and thousands of other men..?

Ps. I totally empathise with your issue..your Bio is very well structured..cogent and exudes clarity.

I feel you on this and understand completely, why would any free thinker or liberal date a Trump supporter lol, I think some men are completely ignorant and think they may change you, I hate to say this but in my experience a lot of conservative, right wing men can be misogynistic and think it's normal because I work with some! Just ignore them or block them the best you can, and hopefully you'll meet someone more compatible with your beliefs and passions ☺

You are NOT alone in this.
Men tend to connect only with their eyes.
And HOW DARE YOU not be grateful for any form of attention.
After all, you aren't getting younger! You should just go ahead and settle now...

arrgggghh.

They probably think they can change you. I used to get that a lot, especially about my sexuality. I just don't use most dating sites any more because I'm sick of dudes who think I 'just need some dick.'