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I am feeling very frustrated right now. I posted on craigslist a few weeks ago. The only responses I have received are "girls" that want you to buy them this or that or their mother or father is sick and they need you to help pay for medical care. I was born in the dark, but it wasn't last night. I keep getting these emails from different women all wanting "the love of their lives" to come rescue them from something. They say they live in tampa, or dallas and when you look up the area code you find it is a call center in cleveland ,or LA or Denver. Does anyone else have this problem, or is it only me?

jimmy1961 4 Feb 1
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You made yourself a target and you announced it to the world bro. There are everywhere active senior facilities and communities with all kinds of activities were to meet up. People your own age not looking for a sugar daddy. Take partnered dance lessons... There is always more female than males taking the lessons. There is a website for seniors "My Time" you need to be 50 to be in it I believe. I was told is very legit. Not judging but if you are looking for someone half your age. Male order brides from Russia and Philippines are still around, even the president got one. In other words... DON"T.

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As long as humans keep thinking like animals, all relationships will fail, regardless of where they're found.

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Why not try a legitimate dating site like Plenty of Fish (free) or Match.com? I would Never expect quality responses from a site that caters to bargain hunters!

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When I put dating profiles online I kept getting scammers, blocking them, reporting them, until I was tired of it and deleted my accounts.
Same for Facebook except that I block and report them the moment they send me a message request.
In my case, it's usually foreign men looking for green cards.

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It's not a "problem" for me, but 2 or 3 times I've had young girls, quite beautiful young women, contact me through FB appearing to be interested in developing a relationship. Just for something to do, I played along to see how far they would take it before they finally realized they weren't going to get anything out of me. At that point, they became ghosts. Also, if you looked at their FB friends page, all men, mostly older.

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My understanding is that Craigslist is NOT for finding a real relationship. You might want to try a site that at least monitors its members.

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These scammers are all over. They are on facebook and twitter too. I am not on those sites for friendship or dating. But they try to follow you or request being your friend. So I played along for awhile waiting for their scam and they didn't fail me, they all tried. It's like they are all reading from the same script. You don't know who your really talking to, is it a woman or a man? Whose picture is it?

They are so effing obvious, aren't they? One even told me she needed money for tampons. Can you believe that? WTF?

@Condor5 Most wanted iPhone cards, some claim they were inheriting money and they needed some place to put the money. So they would need my bank account number or credit card. I always asked them I think it is time we talk via the phone so I could here their voice. They all had the same excuse, something happened to their phone. I just block them but they come back with a different name but same picture.

@Thomas3 amazing how brash they can be.

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"Craigslist isn't a good place--"

Just stop. Right there.

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That is the worst place to pick up a date. It's not even on my list of the last place I'd look. POF has pedophiles as well. I met my sex offender ex there.

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Does anyone remember the old days, between BBSs and Alex terminals? People were geting more groin than the US Army Corps of Engineers.

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Craigslist personals are known for being fertile field for scammers. What you're experiencing is quite typical. Enter at your own risk.

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OK, yes, these women may be scamming you, more likely they are not women either.

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Craigslist is not a good place to go to find a relationship. It’s more of a hook up spot. You could try Pleny of Fish or this site, both of which are free

CS60 Level 7 Feb 1, 2018

Plenty of fish is not free.

I guess I’ll find out if I ever put a profile on that site

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No offense, but are you ... cheap or something? Craigslist for dating? Seriously? Some woman is going to kidnap you and turn you into a lampshade if you don't watch out.

Not that the other sites are that terrific but at least step up to PlentyOfFish.com -- it's still free and it's still full of idiots but it doesn't have "I don't even know how to search for love" written all over it.

Seriously though ... I met my current wife on a (now-defunct) site for general discussion where you had to be over 40. It wasn't even a dating sight. Friends first and all that sort of thing. It was the luck of the draw ... many odd aspects of both our background / experiences that we had in common and could relate to.

Your mileage may vary, but I'd invest in one of the paid sites where some effort goes into matching people based on characteristics.

"Craigslist for dating? Seriously? Some woman is going to kidnap you and turn you into a lampshade if you don't watch out."
Now that's funny!

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Craigslist isn't the best place to find a real relationship. It's not even a great place to find a hookup.

Yeah, you’ll probably just hinge hookers instead.

Its not even a good place to rehome a dog, THey end up getting used as bait

@NothinnXpreVails ok I googled it and didnt find a satisfactory result. What is a hinge hooker?

Hahahah I’ve no idea, was supposed to be ‘get’. Autocorrect strikes again! @btroje

@NothinnXpreVails that makes more sense! SPellcheck is the spawn of satan

@btroje I hate spellcheck. I know more words than spellcheck (I would bet everyone on this site does), and it screws me up ALL the damn time.

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Not from Craigslist, but every dating site is inundated with this type of scam. (except Agnostic.com). I have been on several dating sites for over 20 years and it has been that way since the start of the internet. Because it was so prevalent, I typed a text file and save to copy and paste in chats saying "I have one strict rule when I am on the internet. I will NEVER, under ANY circumstances, send money or gifts to ANYONE for ANY REASON". Feel free to copy and use it if you so desire.

Good idea about not sending them anything, and saying it upfront.

@Condor5 that will stop the scam immediately.

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What were you expecting from Craigslist?

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It's pretty typical of most dating sites.

jeffy Level 7 Feb 1, 2018

The last one of those I was on (totally done with them now), you could tell the scammers; way below my preferred age cstegory, and they'd put up a phone # and want you to call or text them. No thanks. I always reported them to the webmasters. I'm not as dumb as I look.

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