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It's very out of the ordinary for me, but I really need to be held today.

I need comfort.
This is a foreign need. I usually hate being hugged.

Donotbelieve 9 Jan 10
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Level 8

You are a lot like me. I hate hugs too. I normally don't like being touched by other humans. However, we are not immune to the need for human touch now and again. But only certain humans, for me.

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Level 6

You really are...

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Level 7

Sending you a virtual hug

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Level 9

If you hate hugs, I will send a quiet listening ear if needed, but there is nothing wrong with needing a hug, only robots can do without hugs all the time.

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Level 8

You are always giving out love, support and advice to all of us. I’d love to send you some hugs?

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Level 8

Digital hugs on the way. Hope it helps. This too will pass. ?

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Level 8

I believe you are a kind, thoughtful person who cares about other people just because that is who you are.

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Level 8

Hugs have become almost ceremonial in some places, replacing handshakes, and so have lost much of their meaning for me. A hug from the right person, however ... Someone you can trust — with your own vulnerability. Hope you find that hug!

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Level 8

Go to a pet store or shelter and hug puppies and kitties ! You may find that even more rewarding.
Seriously, hang in there ! This time of the year can be especially trying..

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Level 9

Here you go:

@Donotbelieve I always know where the best hugs are.... Just ask me anytime. I also give really good real world ones. 😉

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Level 5

I know that feeling.

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Level 7

Everything will be ok.?

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Level 9

Reach out to someone you trust and respond to that need.

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Level 7

We are social beings and touch is a part of our existence. In fact, if you don't give a child, an infant, touch, they will fail to thrive. While it may not be your norm, it is perfectly natural to want, need, touch.

Trust me... been there a lot. :/

Will a virtual hug help? 🙂 /abrazos

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Level 8

Hugs for whatever the reason for the need.

@WilliamCharles mama hugs are the best!
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Level 8

Hope you find some physical comfort that is comforting.

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Level 8

Just whistle, I’ll be there! I think I live close to Notyourbusiness and I’m a great hugger! ?

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Level 8

Hope you feel much better, very soon!

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Level 8

Track down whoever got you sick and demand hugs from them. (They owe you.) ?

Feel better soon.

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Level 4

Sometimes I need to let the walls down a bit to see things are not as bad.

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Level 3

Sending virtual hugs your way. Hope you feel better.

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Level 6
  • Hugs * ♡ ♡

Hope your day got better!

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Level 6

Hugs and positive energy

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Level 7

we all do

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Level 9

So very sorry to read you have a fever. I hope it's nothing serious, and you're feeling better soon. In the meantime consider yourself hugged by me.?

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