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A new study says that all men, regardless of age, will always be attracted to women in their 20's and that as women get older, they are attracted to older men.... Any thoughts on this? Is it true for you? Why do you think it's true?

Cutiebeauty 9 Feb 26
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Words like all/ever/never should be hardly used. My buddies sister is in her early 20's. I remember when she was born. To me she is just a baby. A foul mouthed baby. And when she posts things of sexaul nature on FB, it gives me the heebie jeebies.

Nope. Prefer gals my age.

Agreed. The larger the age gap, the less we have in common.

@chucklesIII Agreed. Women that are a little older are a different story.

So many people are relying all/ever/never.....drives me batty.

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Hell, the way they are uused to market Everything, I am attracted to 20-year olds!!!!
And we Hope that older men have become better people.....it's uphill, at best.....

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Healthy young people are aesthetically attractive to the opposite sex regardless of gender; but as I get older, it takes more than physical appearance to appeal to me.

While I appreciate beauty, it's impossible to get past the fact that most twenty-somethings are younger than my children now.

JimG Level 8 Feb 26, 2019
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Love sucks, hope is dead. Most men never grow out of club snatch. This is why homosexual relationships are more likely to be satisfying. The more I age, the more I realize that love may not be a thing at all, its a temporary mechanism of human breeding.

@actofdog but come on! t's true! nobody wants to say it, but I'll be the first. The statistics are on my side. And BTW I'm such a romantic! Lol!

@actofdog well good luck! I hope all works out.

You're a bigger cynic than me, that's saying something....

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Well, my husband is 17 years younger than me, so there goes the "all men" theory.

Orbit Level 7 Feb 26, 2019
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In my 20s, guys my age were impossibly immature. So I dated men up to 13 years older. My daughter had the same problem in her 20s.

Today three-quarters of American men are overweight or obese (and 65% of women).

Finding a fit, active man who can keep up with me is difficult. Often I date men who are 10 years younger.

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We are attracted to young, vibrant, people...their vitality and attraction are obvious to all, but that is an appreciation of their beauty, and is a natural human reaction, . That goes for both sexes, I can see the beauty in young men and woman alike, and appreciate that beauty. That doesn’t mean that I actually expect them to find me attractive in return, or even wish them to do so. I think it’s too sweeping to generalise and talk about “all” though, in any context, there are always exceptions , especially when discussing anything as subjective as human attraction. Some young women may be attracted to older men, others not. Our preferences and tastes can change throughout our lives, depending on circumstance and experience. There will probably always be some men who prefer younger women, even though they themselves are old.

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Answer to number one is yes. But decorum dictates that one shall not ogle.

@Bierbasstard I've always been a slow counter.

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I've always been attracted to men 10-15 years older.

Sure hope the part about men is wrong. I've heard a lot of men say that women in their 20s are too immature and needy.

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If you think we are hardwired for reproduction and 20s is the apex of reproductive capacity of women...
Of course cultural and mental traits can override this.
Too young women (early 20s) catch my eyes, but soon my mind reject as too young, probably not interesting enough to be worthy.
And the opposite with woman on the late 20s/early 30s. That catch my eyes and they look like interesting a lot.
But this is a first reaction half a second after it is gone, for both.

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Get my phone! I call bullshit!

What... You don't like younger women? Lol

I agree!

@Cutiebeauty My woman must be older than my whisky XD

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Like them older aware of cougar they hit on me and I'm in 70 s want to share my oxygen honey lol

bobwjr Level 10 Feb 26, 2019
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Don't agree with this statement. I like to have sex with guys in the 23 to 30 range. An older man may attract me intellectually - maybe.

zesty Level 7 Feb 26, 2019

That's so interesting. I'm 44 and if a guy is 5 years younger than me....it kind of creeps me out. Like, obviously a man in his late 30s isn't jail bait but it just feels that way to me. Idk, I lost my virginity at 18 to a man who was 28 so maybe that's why? Or maybe I lost it to him because he's 28 and went for him....chicken or egg situation I guess.

@Marcie1974 I have the impression that you make it way too complicated! Line them up young, hung and hard. Enjoy! BTW, I don't want to have sex with guys younger than my grandsons. Lol

@zesty the younger ones only seem to care if they get off and don't give a crap if the woman does.

@zesty plus grey hair and/or bald guys are sexy as hell!!!!

@Marcie1974 You are definitely a minority Marcie....

@TomMcGiverin you'd think there would be more men out there for me then......sadly it doesn't seem that way.

@Marcie1974 I don't know why that is either Marcie..

@Marcie1974 Try young, sensually educated swingers. They are sooo good!

@zesty I'm trying to stay more open minded age-wise. I think it goes more by looks if I meet someone organically (as opposed to a dating app). I've seen men in their 60s that look my age...conversely I've seen men younger than me that look 20+ years older.

I try not to be too picky about physique either but really slim men generally just don't do it for me.

@Marcie1974 I'm also very open-minded in terms of age. It is the sexual performance what gets me. I don't date them, just use the boys as a biological dildo. Actually, most youngsters like that.

@Marcie1974 I'm the same way, I can't imagine having sex with a guy who is young enough to be my son. Most women are this way, however, most men have no problems at all with it.

@Marcie1974 grey hair is very attractive 🙂)

@GreatNani mmmm Sam Elliott (drools)

@Marcie1974 Yup! And George Clooney who looks better and better every year.

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Girls learn how to walk before boys, talk before boys, and mature before boys. So they tend to be attracted to 'older men', rather than boys the same age or younger. Boys discover that girls younger than they are , are attracted to them. So, their first sexual experiences tend to be with younger girls. It all has to do with the female maturing faster than the male. It's all biology! Nothing new here. But I wonder how much money they wasted on this study?

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This doesn't sound like a legitimate study or at the very least not well done, maybe a very small control group. Too generalized. What qualifies as older? 5, 10, 20 years? I have, with the exception of once, dated around my age or younger, up to 20 yrs younger. But it isn't the age that attracts me and I think that's true for most people, male or female.

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I fancy who I fancy and always have

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Madison Avenue has sold us on the beauty of youth. Even wrinkle cream ads feature models that are too young to have wrinkles.

MizJ Level 8 Feb 28, 2019
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Because women have a tendency to become overweight and as a rule do not age as well as men. This does not apply to all women but generally. The Cary Grant or George Clooney image is what men can sometimes look forward too.

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Can you post the study? There are biological reasons for this in the same way mammals, without viable mating alternatives will mate with siblings and even offsprings. The older men is about protection which is a fundamental female evolutionary desire. Not me...3 out of three fellas all younger
I do the protecting around here roars

I don't have the study... It was discussed on a talk show...

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Not from my experience - not at all.

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No, not true for me at all, I can appreciate the beauty of a younger woman but am not attracted to them, never was, both my wives are and were considerably older than me and are of a build best described as a Celtic Rose, Red haired, green eyed, buxom and beautiful.
The only other type of woman I find remotely attractive are the sort of look popular with 1960's Asian film stars Tsai Chin and Mie Hama for example.
Just my taste, so I may be the exception that proves the rule.

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It might have something to do with genetics, how women want an older later in life and men prefer women in their 20s. Simply, it might something to do with filling there needs. I think I might be having a mid life crisis since I desire more women there 20s, instead of ones closer to my age or older.

Simpler than that if you want to go by genetics, younger women are more fertile, older men have survived longer so will likely produce stronger offspring.

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Of course men are attracted to 20 somethings, what's not to be attracted too! Plus I also find a lot of older women quite attractive as well. And I can say from recent personal experience the sex is just as good either way.....

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Can't escape what's in your DNA.

That's true, all males look for breeding material only. It's done on a subconscious level. And 20-25 year olds have the highest breeding capacity.

@Kojaksmom Not true.This male never wanted or had kids, so I never looked for that in women, consciously or subconsciously. How do you account for that with your theory?

@TomMcGiverin every study ever done all have the same outcome. Men , any age, find only characteristics in females that point to fertility. Body type is the best example. males are immediately drawn to waist hip ratios. Any female will tell you that after menopause that immediately changes, and it's not always due to weight changes but hormonal shifts.

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I think some of these studies are skewed in some way. To say "all" is kind of presumptuous, like maybe they're trying to frighten or discourage people. I've seen all sorts of couplings.

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