have you ever had a sex-related injury?
IT can happen, I just had pulled muscles and one or two near drownings.
what's happened to you and was it worth the pain?
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Not really sure if this counts.
I once got some “sympathy” sex after a kick back from a table saw at work narrowly missed the important parts and left a massive black and blue bruise on my inner thigh.
Haemish1
Level 8
May 19, 2019
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Listen up, guys!
For the past 10 years, men who "jackhammer" (hard pounding) split open my perineum. Bleeds and hurts like hell. Takes over a month to heal.
I have kicked guys to the curb over this. Although I tell men, they revert to habitual hard pounding. I'm done. Selfish jerks.
This has nothing to do with penis size. It's about being too rough with women.
When I told my boyfriend, a medical doctor, he changed the angle of his penis.
"You should feel some soreness, but no pain," Bill said. He was right. No tearing.
I feel grateful for Bill's compassion and self-control. He is an extraordinary lover.
LiterateHiker
Level 9
May 19, 2019
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this is a real problem even among younger girls in a in a another life I coached a lot of young couples. I had one 20-something girl that's " every time I have sex with my husband it's like being punched in the stomach." when I saw the husband he was hung like the proverbial horse. I showed them some positions your help greatly. this included putting a fist between his penis in her vagina in doggy AND missionary.
I hope not too graphic but maybe this might help someone else.
In a test of trust, I got injured. (not sharing details) While I was healing from the injury, my partner (assuming I was out of commission) chose to have sex with another woman multiple times, even on the very day I had my last doctor appointment due to the injury. Needless to say, trust was shattered for me, yet again, and I won't be trusting a man, especially him, for quite some time.
Definitely not worth it, due to the shocking lack of loyalty and compassion for the injury he caused me. Not the worst of the problems we had during our 8+ years together, but definitely a bad memory.
Julie808
Level 8
May 18, 2019
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the lack of trust is the most heartbreaking part.
the older woman who initially trained me told me that if you ever heard a girl between the legs you'll never trust you again. she was the lady that taught me the light touch.
I was very clear to let me KNOW with my hand got too heavy. I truly do wish that there was a vocation where older women would train younger boys in the art of lovemaking
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