Yeah, like I want to be told by an 81 year old atheist in a PM that he hasn't had sex in a year.
What is it with some men?
This is 100% the stupid illusion that most porn, and a good chunk of the sex work industry (from exotic dancers to escorts to professional BDSM) sells... a man just has to say he has needs (or, you know, wink wink nod nod, be "present" ), and women will be overcome with their desire to be of service. I mean, what could be more gratifying?
If theyre relationship material they will leave a bunch of cleaning supplies around, for us to use after theyre done.
I'm not telling...
at what point in a conversation or relationship the subject comes up as far as I'm concerned, but it's certainly not in the second message we exchange. It has to be organic to the conversation and feel like it's right to bring it up. It has to feel to me like she is asking the question.