A question for the guys: What qualities most impress you in a woman?
I love a woman you can have a good conversation with, can be herself, adventures etc.
Intelligence, wit, an open mind, edgy, and mean when she needs to be. Hard to offend and a crazy sense of humor, with a wildly inappropriate potty mouth So yeah, a dude with a vj, but I swear I'm not gay!
Right here!
Intelligence is big, but I am also attracted to women who aren't easily intimidated.
@OnaM As many times as I've wanted to move to Colorado, I haven't because toxic masculinity seems as big there as in North Carolina. Sigh.
@OnaM Heard! Yet a woman with those qualities is supposed to be genuinely attracted to him and not a golddigger? That's the toxic masculinity I'm referring to. It's pie in the sky ego.
I'm sure there's someone around who's worthwhile. I have definitely seen what you're talking about, but I've seen some good guys too. I know you'll probably think at first that I don't see the same side of guys that women do, but they don't try to hide it from other men. Often they're proud of their ignorance.
@JimG Thank you for your viewpoint and encouragement. Here's my issue with the men you describe: if I was attracted to a man proud of his ignorance, I'd have been off the market long ago and committed to a gun totin Evangelical who wanted to keep me barefoot, pregnant, cooking and cleaning for life while he sat on his ass and drank PBR's. No thanks!! I'm pretty good at articulating what I want, and men who pretend to be ignorant are abhorrent to me. It's a wonder all such men aren't living in their Mommy's basement.
Who aren't easily intimidated what what or whom?
Honesty, intelligence and empathy. I'm defitently a sapiosexual, lol, but without honesty don't even bother talking to me. Zero tolerance for liars (or thieves,) but I hold myself to the same standard.
I can't stand NASCAR, having grown up in North Carolina. Other than that, where do I apply??
@hemingwaykitten You voted for Bernie, as far as I'm concerned you already made the cut.
Kindness and empathy, impress me. Intelligence, strength, and a great ass melt me. Lol
I like when she shows interest in the topic I'm talking about. I like if she likes the food I cook for her. I like if she loves to read and can suggest me some. I like if she is spontaneous. I like if she smiles and kisses me when she sees me. I like when she is surprised and am always willing to try to surprise her. I like if she is encouraging but not pushy.
I wouldn't say this is a quality that impresses me only in women, but I'd have to say honesty. That seems to be a quality that is in woefully short supply these days.
Independence, mutual hate of drama, sence of adventure, willingness to try new stuff.
Quick of wit and fast of smile...if she's got that, the rest always seems to follow.