Pretty much, yep.
Does the saying, "too soon dude" hold any relevance?

Yup. You creeped her out. Too aggressive. I'm by no means a prude & now that I'm divorced, I'm FULLY ENJOYING a healthy sex life.(flipside of that coin, I've also been known to, "Hey thanx, your UBER'S here" too) But unless I initiate...i want the guy to back off. Aggression is a creepy turn off for those who aren't into that kind of thing.

No, not at all. There are a lot of wacko women who get easily insulted, and you had the bad luck to meet one. I once asked my instructor in grad school for sex. She said no, but didn't get insulted, and I got an A in the course. She was a very cool lady.

Honestly, just based on what you wrote, it seems like her response was pretty harsh. That being said, there really is no "appropriate" response. Some girls are ready and willing for sex early on, even first date, while some girls aren't ready and willing unto after marriage! It also depends on many other things including, but not limited to, how you said it, how you acted when you said it, how you reacted when she said no, etc.

Yes I think she responded in an open and honest manner. She may wanted a llittle more subtlety or magic but then again you were young

For for you it wasn't.

Yes it was an appropriate response. I am 51 years old and had someone said that to me after meeting them only once, I'd run for the hills.

I must be from a different planet or something but I have always dated for three to four weeks before sex happens. Have to connect with the other person. She was right in her response.

Sex may or may not have been your endgame before you even met. Whichever was true, you just made it look like it was. Personally, I'd have left it at "I find you very attractive/sexy and I'd love to see you again." Maybe go for a brief kiss on the lips, and leave the question of sex for meet no.2.

I get crap like this on PoF all of the time. Starts out civil, and the next thing you know, it's all about getting their rocks off. Only yesterday, I was chatting with a guy and it was all perfectly pleasant. He mentioned that he was going to take a bath. He then mentioned that he was going to masturbate while he was in there. End of conversation for me. I expect that behaviour when 'hooking up', I don't expect it when 'dating' (which is what I'm attempting to do on PoF, and I make that very clear in my profile.)

The trouble here is that women, gay bottoms, and indeed anyone in the sexually receptive role are plagued with men who just want somewhere body temperature to dump their next ejaculation into. They will be on the lookout for telltales that you're that kind of man. Sadly, it's up to you to prove that you're not.

Unless they do just want a shag. In which case, happy days.

I think this was clickbait... trying to make his way to the next level. OF COURSE it was an appropriate response. This is exactly why women build walls.

Yes. She obviously valued herself more than you did.

Were you adults? If so she over reacted.

Depends on how you propositioned. "Wanna fuck?" is a far more terrible way to approach the subject than, say, "May I stay the night?"

If your approach was more like the former example than the latter....I hope you've improved your game since then.

Foe her it was. She saw your behavior as inappropriate, and it obviously made her uncomfortable. You nee to consider the other person's feelings.

Those things take time. Relationships need to grow, and go through stages. You were trying to jump the gun.

Was it your first date?

yes, your obsessed

I always let the body language speak for itself. If you want to know what your date thinks about you physically and what their intentions may be for the longevity of date, their bodies never lie. Eyes, mouth, hands and feet instantly tell you what their minds won't upfront. When I was younger and bar hopped a lot, I used to bet friends on if dates would leave together or separately just by reading their body language. Let's just say I rarely bought my own drinks. Seriously though, the body itself speaks the truth more than words can ever say.

Well it was here. Hard to say ...thkhvhgetting angry is odd. Simple no or not there yet would suffice.

You never mentioned age. And age difference if any. I am not going to assume you were adults.

Reminds me of a funny but true story...I had a date with a nursing student at a local catholic hospital. we went to see Janis Joplin. the event lasted longer then we thought and my date had to call the dorm where she was staying to let them know she was going to be late. when we got back to the dorm, the nuns greeted us at the door. I said good nite to my date and asked if the nun would turn around that I wanted to kiss my date good night. the nun laughed and turned around.

It all depends on how you said it, how well you knew her before the date, and so on. Lots of people have sex on the first date, not that I'm recommending it, so the idea that you had to be wrong is wrong.

Unless you were crass about it, I'd say she overreacted. Given the fact that she never spoke to you again and that you are asking about it now, my guess is that you creeped her out by how you asked and you already know the answer to your question.

You didn't mention if this was your first date and your age. It would help to have more information before I could respond.

You guys weren’t compatible, lucky you got a kiss

You'd have to know everything about her to know why she responded that way. Also, you don't say it was a first, second, third or so on date. Some people don't have sex on the first date and think the expectation of it is wrong.

I think it could also be asked if your proclamation that you "wanted to have sex with her" was appropriate.