Do you have a secret life?
I believe we each have a 'secret' self. We have the Public Self, the Private Self and the Secret Self. The stories we tell each other and ourselves are just that, from the Public Self. We keep the Private Self hidden, and the Secret Self remains - a realm of sunbeams and shadows.
I don't have a secret life, but I have a really rich internal dialogue, I spend a lot of time in my own head, and that feels like a secret life to me. Even though it's not.
A bit. There are things that I am still somewhat closeted about. If we lived elsewhere it would not be nearly as closeted...but is for now.