My wife is 90% dope, but that % where she lacks is annoying. That's where the sex is however. Born into the church but now agnostic AF, I've had QUITE the sexual past. My wife finds most of it intimidating and to date, has had little interest in doing the things I like with any frequency. Sooooo...I'm just suffering in silence... We've talked extensively about it, to no avail. What to do?
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.How does your wife feel (presuming she is aware) about you exploring for sexual relationship(s) elsewhere ?
FearlessFly
Level 9
Feb 14, 2022
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@EchelonGrey . . . others here thought (jumped-to-the-conclusion) you are/were/might-be 'cheating' -- good that you have contradicted that.
I also think it good that you talk about it with her, and here.
Worked in a shipyard 13 years, amongst 20,000+/- men, many times they discussed amongst themselves, not knowing a gal was nearby.
Learned A Lot, got over it.
SUCH a unique excuse to cheat! NOT!
AnneWimsey
Level 9
Feb 14, 2022
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@EchelonGrey oh, you're Not working up to cheating?
Troll? Probably
ADKSparky
Level 8
Feb 14, 2022
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@EchelonGrey It is not appropriate to speak to people this way.
@EchelonGrey I smell a Trumper.
What language do you use when typing?
Alienbeing
Level 8
Feb 14, 2022
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@EchelonGrey That explains it. Since there is no such language as "American" I can see why you typed as you did.
@EchelonGrey Get a life.
@EchelonGrey I see you enjoy yourself.
Obvious troll is obvious.
Not even the tiniest bit clever.
BufftonBeotch
Level 8
Feb 14, 2022
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@EchelonGrey It's not appropriate to speak to people this way.
@LovinLarge Oh...I doubt this one will be here long. Running about in his shrieking little voice.
@BufftonBeotch Agreed. I just wanted to discourage that behavior. You are a very attractive woman, as I'm sure you are told often.
@EchelonGrey And it only took one post from you for everyone to see you for exactly who you are. I have a funny feeling that your wife isn't giving you the full story about why she doesn't want to sleep with you.
@EchelonGrey You are actually a very attractive man if the pic can be believed. Not the shaved manscape but your face.
You could dial back the anger from eleventy and acid spitting from the eyes.
Given the fact in your profile you say you are looking for someone for sexual encounters I would suggest that you are not interested in sorting this out with your wife but it almost seems you have decided to cheat on her rather that show her the love and compassion you probably promised her when you got married.
I don't care about your sexual history you decided to marry this woman and so you need to work with her. Couples therapy may help or she may decide to boot you to find someone trustworthy who will live up to their promise to her.
Budgie
Level 8
Feb 14, 2022
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@EchelonGrey We are adults. Criticizing peoples' appearance is beneath us. Conduct yourself in a way that allows us to respect you. Please.
@EchelonGrey OMG Am I how have I not noticed? Shocked picachu face! Oh well if you are going to try and use that against me boyo try again. I don't care what you think of me. You obviously were affected by what I said or you would not be striking out at me like a 2 year old. Time to grow up I think.
Reestablish your priorities.
LovinLarge
Level 8
Feb 14, 2022
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@EchelonGrey I was not being flippant. When my life was not proceeding the way I wanted it to, I made a list of my priorities in life, in order of importance to me. After that, I used my time only for pursuits that supported those priorities. After awhile, it came naturally and moved me in the appropriate direction.
Discipline is very important in pursuing your life goals. If you are willing to reestablish your priorities, you will find that your time is the most valuable thing you have and will want to use it to accomplish your long term goals. It's up to you to determine what kind of man you want to be.
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