Ok, my wife and I are separated but not divorced yet. We are working on the paper work for it now. She is the one who wants the divorce and I am still madly in love with her. We are going to stay friends because it was not a bad divorce. She grew apart from me and lost interest in the relationship. I am having a very hard time dealing with this situation. I keep forgetting we are not together anymore and wanting to do things for her like I always have done when we were together. And I keep expecting her to want to spend time with me when she doesn't because I am having such a hard time with it all. What should I do to help get over this situation and move on. She is adamant about the divorce and shows no signs of changing her mind. I'm lost without her.