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Gentlemen, could you please give me some insight concerning unsolicited pictures of male genitalia? I've been on the very surprised & unhappy receiving end of such pictures. I'm far from a prude but to suddenly find the inclusion of a piece of male anatomy that I never said that I wanted to see, is a bit of a turn off. Any chance that a man may have had with me before that, is now gone. Why do some men assume that a woman automatically wants to see his junk? I thought he was an interesting man to chat with & then, there was a picture of his penis. That just killed it.

MermaidSuzy888 6 May 28
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I'd ask him how he lost his thumbnail. But that's just me.

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MermaidSuzy,
I have to ask. Did this occur here on Agnostic.Com?

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I don't get it. I think it is insulting and demeaning to the woman. I will put up a pic of me and it will be above the sholulders.
Marty

fibus Level 2 May 30, 2018
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I don't get it, either.

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On a similar note before the internet men used to flash their privates regularly either in parks or out drinking with friends .

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Really sad. I've had this happen to me, too. Not on here, though... Gives new meaning to the term "junk mail' (apologies, it's early morning).

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Wouldn't do it without prior agreement.

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It boggles my mind, how people do this. There is a proper time for sharing -- and it's after you ask permission. 🙂

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Awww hell Suzy.... theres not sure answer to stop that. I understand your statement. Put it on your profile that pictures of their body are not wanted and those people will be blocked.... there you go...lol.

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Gee, why did I read all this?? ????

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Boys do this because they are gay. Or they are familiar with dimwitted females who like to see those kinds of photos. You must realized that they have not been breastfed, which means there mothers probably like to see those pics too. I hope this helps... It is a turn of to me also. When I am on the dating app, and I see t&a in a message to me. They probably didn’t read my profile... ?

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Some boys never escape puberty.

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Apparently it's an Internet version of puffing your chest out to attract a mate . The individuals sending them think they have little to offer and less time . So sending a photo is quick easy and direct . It's even been said that it can be addictive as sending 100's and then getting one response is quiet the buzz . I wish it was an education thing such a not knowing the law but they have found that men from all walks of life have sent them . There's probably a few studies on the matter

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He mistook this site for Grinder?
Porn is his only reference for sexual activity?
It was actually a plucked goose he was preparing for the oven?
Beyond that my imagination fails.

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Obviously I don’t speak for all males, but all of mine are solicited.

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I am equally perplexed.

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I have never understood why some men do that. I only look at my own when necessary. ?

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Second post of this ilk today. I'll ask again: Who the hell thinks this kind of shit is a turn on?

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I've search low and high, far and wide for an answer. I think it has to do with a less evolved human that thinks procreation can be thrown to the female like this primitive octopus.
The tiny male throws a modified arm containing spermatozoa (called a hectocotylus) at the female, which will then swim toward the female's mantle (the sac which stores her organs), finding its way inside and subsequently fertilizing the eggs.

Octopi are very smart! Some male human are not.
[iflscience.com]

(sorry that happened to you)

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I've never really understood it. Unless a gal has asked to see it and its someone im willing to show, I mean you'd assume everyone would be that way. You'd think there would be some kind of law about exposing yourself unwanted like that to others.

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I haven't got a clue why someone would do that at all.

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Men, as a group, online, are stupid. I feel they take the approach volume - send many girls a picture and hopefully one will respond positively. But I don't get why they stick with that tactic, given how many people advise AGAINST that. It's ineffective.

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Just reply with " LMAO ". Then you can move on.

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It sooo pisses me off..and an instant trip to the shit can for him.

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Yes,manners or lack of,has killed any potential further conversations,waving around a Male's reproductive organ.

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