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Gentlemen, could you please give me some insight concerning unsolicited pictures of male genitalia? I've been on the very surprised & unhappy receiving end of such pictures. I'm far from a prude but to suddenly find the inclusion of a piece of male anatomy that I never said that I wanted to see, is a bit of a turn off. Any chance that a man may have had with me before that, is now gone. Why do some men assume that a woman automatically wants to see his junk? I thought he was an interesting man to chat with & then, there was a picture of his penis. That just killed it.

MermaidSuzy888 6 May 28
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I thought it was because I was older and out of touch but that does not seem to be a promising approach.

can be fun

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I'd ask him how he lost his thumbnail. But that's just me.

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I hate it when guys will first act so conservative and reserved on a first date, then a week later BAM! you get photos of their worm in your text message box. When guys are horndogs you expect a dick pick within hours after the first date, but some guys are rather sneaky about it.

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I wish I could tell you. I a man and as straight as they come. The only thing I can come up with is that men always want to se a woman’s genitalia and they must assume weman want the same thing. Or maybe it's a younger generation thing. I don’t know if any guys my age send dick pics or not. I didn’t like sending them even if asked for one when I was single.

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Would you believe this is not the first time the subject has come up? If you are interested in previous comments on this site, just did a search for "dick." One of the posts has well over 100 comments.

To answer your question, I have never sent any unsolicited pictures of anything to anyone. I would say that any male who sends an unsolicited picture of his genitals is no "gentleman."

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they may as well show you who will be making the decisions in your conversations with them.

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Yes,manners or lack of,has killed any potential further conversations,waving around a Male's reproductive organ.

3

It sooo pisses me off..and an instant trip to the shit can for him.

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Just reply with " LMAO ". Then you can move on.

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Men, as a group, online, are stupid. I feel they take the approach volume - send many girls a picture and hopefully one will respond positively. But I don't get why they stick with that tactic, given how many people advise AGAINST that. It's ineffective.

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I haven't got a clue why someone would do that at all.

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I've never really understood it. Unless a gal has asked to see it and its someone im willing to show, I mean you'd assume everyone would be that way. You'd think there would be some kind of law about exposing yourself unwanted like that to others.

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I've search low and high, far and wide for an answer. I think it has to do with a less evolved human that thinks procreation can be thrown to the female like this primitive octopus.
The tiny male throws a modified arm containing spermatozoa (called a hectocotylus) at the female, which will then swim toward the female's mantle (the sac which stores her organs), finding its way inside and subsequently fertilizing the eggs.

Octopi are very smart! Some male human are not.
[iflscience.com]

(sorry that happened to you)

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Second post of this ilk today. I'll ask again: Who the hell thinks this kind of shit is a turn on?

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I have never understood why some men do that. I only look at my own when necessary. ?

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I don't get it, either.

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I am equally perplexed.

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Obviously I don’t speak for all males, but all of mine are solicited.

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He mistook this site for Grinder?
Porn is his only reference for sexual activity?
It was actually a plucked goose he was preparing for the oven?
Beyond that my imagination fails.

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Apparently it's an Internet version of puffing your chest out to attract a mate . The individuals sending them think they have little to offer and less time . So sending a photo is quick easy and direct . It's even been said that it can be addictive as sending 100's and then getting one response is quiet the buzz . I wish it was an education thing such a not knowing the law but they have found that men from all walks of life have sent them . There's probably a few studies on the matter

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On a similar note before the internet men used to flash their privates regularly either in parks or out drinking with friends .

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Really sad. I've had this happen to me, too. Not on here, though... Gives new meaning to the term "junk mail' (apologies, it's early morning).

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Boys do this because they are gay. Or they are familiar with dimwitted females who like to see those kinds of photos. You must realized that they have not been breastfed, which means there mothers probably like to see those pics too. I hope this helps... It is a turn of to me also. When I am on the dating app, and I see t&a in a message to me. They probably didn’t read my profile... ?

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Some boys never escape puberty.

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Gee, why did I read all this?? ????

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