Agnostic.com

18 0

Women!
How do you feel about men calling female underwear "panties"?

By mauxjen4
Actions Follow Post Like

Post a comment Add Source Add Photo

Enjoy being online again!

Welcome to the community of good people who base their values on evidence and appreciate civil discourse - the social network you will enjoy.

Create your free account

18 comments

Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.

0

As Sarah Fentem, who is a journalist for The Atlantic said so succinctly:

Sure, when said within the confines of a lingerie store, by an older saleswoman with a tape measure around her neck and glasses slipping down her nose, it's fine: "Did you see the black underwire has the matching panty?" But taken out of this context, the word "panty" can be grimace-inducing—and there are a few possible reasons for that.

I've heard several people refer to the word as "infantilizing." The addition of the suffix "-ies" (or in the singular form, "-y" ) converts the word into a diminutive. Literally: "little pants." The suffix puts it in the same category as "booties" and "blankies"—words often associated with small children. In fact, according to the Oxford English Dictionary, the first known use of "panties" is from a 1908 set of instructions for making doll clothes. "The undergarment is ... easily made, for the little waist and panties are cut in one piece." Women, it seems, would rather not shimmy into a garment whose name would also suggest they are shimmying into a pair of knee socks and saddle shoes and handed an oversized lollipop.

The word is a sexual word. If you don't agree, picture your father or grandfather. Now picture him saying "panties." I admire the woman who doesn't shudder.

Why does panties sound sexual? Many arguments could be made, not the least concerning advertising. I have a hunch that the sexualization of the word "panties" is the result of some marketing focus group grasping for a word to run alongside pictures of lingerie models in "tempting" mesh undergarments. One of my male friends suggested its similarity to the word "panting." Another friend, also male, said "panties" sounds so naughty simply because it refers to something so exclusively feminine. While the word "underwear" is strictly asexual, "panties" is not.

mauxjen Level 4 May 31, 2018
0

Because that's what they are?

bleurowz Level 8 May 31, 2018
0

I even call mine knickers ... who cares?

Hebert54 Level 7 May 31, 2018
1

whats wrong with calling them panties? would you prefer knickers?

2

This is one of those things that most people don't seem to even think, let alone care, about while other people really get their knickers in a twist about it

1

What else would they call them (without me laughing my ass off, knickers? Bbwwaaahhahaa)

graceylou Level 8 May 30, 2018

@AMGT What are we? Five? And underwear can apply to other items worn under clothing.

0

Panties is sexier than underwear.

Taladad Level 8 May 30, 2018
1

OMG. I hate that word. Cringe. It is under wear. One wears it under.

Mooolah Level 8 May 30, 2018
1

My granddaughter, about 3 yrs. old at the time had just finished her bath. I told her to put on her underwear.

She said, "Papa, I don't wear underwear, I wear panties!"

MikeEC Level 7 May 30, 2018
1

Well....they are panties...unless I call them "drawers". (Edited to correct typo)

2

Isn’t that what they are called?

1

I have never even thought about it. it seems like a very trivial thing. I don't care what anyone calls them.

1

Yeah, so?

1

I would feel hurt, confused, sad, and hopeless.

Just kidding!

That’s what I call them too!

BlueWave Level 8 May 30, 2018
0

How do I feel about females calling my underwear "boxers"? It's just as benign.

As far as I know there's no negative context for calling female underwear "panties".

2

I call 'em panties, drawers, bloomers, knickers, big girl panties, underwear, and occasionally "unmentionables" though they've been pretty thoroughly mentioned right now. Though it does beg the question, why are you asking any woman about our panties?

3

Women call them that too ... so ?

evergreen Level 8 May 30, 2018
1

How about calling them "knickers"?

nicknotes Level 8 May 30, 2018
Write Comment
You can include a link to this post in your posts and comments by including the text 'q:94860'.
Agnostic does not evaluate or guarantee the accuracy of any content read full disclaimer.
  • Agnostic.com is a non-profit community for atheists, agnostics, humanists, freethinkers, skeptics and others!