I might also add...
I have never requested, nor asked for, a dick pic. I've never understood why this is a thing. When I saw this meme on FB, and now here, and reading other posts on this topic, I realize perhaps I've been sheltered or something. I am actually glad about that. ? Even having been on dating sites for a few years, I realize now how lucky I've been!
I think some men send them because they're simply sexually aroused and assume the viewer feels the same.
Then there are other men who sense its power to shock and so use the image to shock and humiliate. It's probably borne of misogyny and means ' you, B'.
Either way - they are a bad idea unless asked for. I've received lots of unsolicited dick pics over the years. They do nothing for me.
Just as an aside. Some women complain about misogyny then indulge in ridiculing men by teasing them about the size of their penis. Hypocrites.
That really irritates me actually - Women can't complain about sexism, then take pleasure in ridiculing men's penis size. It's a double standard. It's bullying. A man cannot help his penis size. It also stinks of misogyny..
No 4. is the one that many or most men don't get...ever.
Men assume that women must be visually attracted by their Dicks the same as they would be attracted by women's bums and boobs etc
But most women in general are not turned on by graphic or visual sex the way men are..they are just not wired that way.
I either come from a completely different generation than those who take dic pics or I'm lame as hell. I have never once thought of it - nor would I even if my wife asked me to because she ain't anymore impressed with it than I am. In my opinion men who throw that out there at first contact are sending a clear message that their entire self worth or value rests with their dic.
I have a friend that I "met" when I was first single. We've never met in person, talked on the phone, messaged, and FB friends now. We're politically aligned. He claims to be xian. We met when we both needed support and did good for the distance. He had a major heart issues, and he's changed jobs a few times, and moved a few times. He's also a damn hound dog. He's been through 3 relationships since I've known him. He thinks his little man is the be all and end all, and regularly sends dick pics. He just doesn't get it that it does nothing for me and I delete it as soon as I can. Luckily for my peace of mind I see/talk with him much less often now because I go to bed early and he's busy with the recent temporary love of his life. Sometimes I wish I could just shake him.
If you are going to send such a picture, consider reducing a dollar bill down to half size on a printer, and use that for perspective. She’ll never find out because your chance of ever meeting the lady is nil.
I’ve never done that, mind you, and have no plans to. It’s just an idea. In my case I’d need to enlarge the bill so as not to scare her off.
It is the same as breast pics which seem to be all the rage now among young folk. I have two workers on my landscaping crew that are single and who get constant pictures from women they have met on online dating sites. So it is just not men who think that showing off one's endowments will win the heart of the one they are after.