If you met the perfect person for you on this site would you pack up your whole life to take a chance for love?yes or no ? No matter the distance?
Yes. If I met someone here and it turned out to be love I would move. Knowing it's really love, with a deep connection and understanding of each other, takes time. If we gave it that time and decided together that it was right, I would go.
I have done it before and will again. Since I lost the love of my life to ALS aka Lou Geherig's disease, I've been on a pretty useless search !
Ab so tiv lee
To chase love is to chase happinesses. It's to decide that you will throw yourself into the swirling, maddening and restless chase we're all trying to enter. Because love is the ultimate destination, is it not? It's the reason we move, every day. It’s the reason we get up and fight through the bad. It's the reason we keep going, trudging on, meeting person after person. It's the last goal, the final frontier and the only thing worth moving for. If you think you've found it… in a person... if you yearn, you must go there. Chasing love is not irresponsible, it's honest. It's admitting that there is no greater chase, nothing more important. Because if you're not chasing love, what are you running after? Love isn't infinite. It can be found in a moment, a single dose or a fleeting romance. It can be a year of perfect love with someone who isn't supposed to stay in your life. Love isn't defined by its length but its capacity to touch you and change you. Just because it doesn't last doesn't mean it wasn't real. You must leave for love but you also must realize when that love no longer remains. You must be strong enough to walk away from finished love to find new love. You must flee the suffocation that comes from stifled love and keep your heart open for more. You must never settle, never give in to the idea that you can't have another one. Because the world is full of things to throw your heart into, things to make you weep and realize (yet again) why you're alive.
Yep, I would move for love.
When I met my wife, I knew I was going to marry her, whatever it took. She was born in China and so getting a Visa to the US is almost impossible without a lot of money and connections. We came THIS CLOSE to me moving there. I had an interview with a company in Dalian that wanted to hire me for its international trade office. We found a nice house for sale there. The only reason we didn't move is my mom got sick and I needed to stay close by. My wife moved here in '04 and we've been together since.
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Me too ?
Definitely. Neither time nor space would prevent me from being with my loved one. Love at a distance is a deep quagmire and a no-no for me. Had such an experience (me in China, her here is Canada) and it ended badly when I moved back and we started a face-to-face relationship.
That is definitely a hard one. It really depends on the timing. For now, I don't have many roots so I would but under different circumstances perhaps not.
I can't for the next two years and 8 months because I am finishing graduate school and will be working towards my clinical license in the state of Florida.
No. 5 kids...would be sacrificing my relationship with them unfortunately.
Hard to say as I am happy with my current relationship. I think I would depending on the situation. Children's needs would play a role, and culture and language would matter as well. Also the size of your spiders. Once dated a Aussie and the stories she told about giant poisonous spiders be scary.
Id leave Indiana for much less.
Ditto, except insert Texas.