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Would you move for love?

If you met the perfect person for you on this site would you pack up your whole life to take a chance for love?yes or no ? No matter the distance?

Wchairgal 4 Oct 10
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For the perfect person, absolutely I would move almost anywhere.

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Been there, done that, burned the t-shirt.
Wouldn't do it again.
For anyone.

@saganian If they love me, they can be the one to move.
I've moved for people I love. Won't be doing that anymore.

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Yes. If I met someone here and it turned out to be love I would move. Knowing it's really love, with a deep connection and understanding of each other, takes time. If we gave it that time and decided together that it was right, I would go.

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I have done it before and will again. Since I lost the love of my life to ALS aka Lou Geherig's disease, I've been on a pretty useless search !

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Ab so tiv lee

To chase love is to chase happinesses. It's to decide that you will throw yourself into the swirling, maddening and restless chase we're all trying to enter. Because love is the ultimate destination, is it not? It's the reason we move, every day. It’s the reason we get up and fight through the bad. It's the reason we keep going, trudging on, meeting person after person. It's the last goal, the final frontier and the only thing worth moving for. If you think you've found it… in a person... if you yearn, you must go there. Chasing love is not irresponsible, it's honest. It's admitting that there is no greater chase, nothing more important. Because if you're not chasing love, what are you running after? Love isn't infinite. It can be found in a moment, a single dose or a fleeting romance. It can be a year of perfect love with someone who isn't supposed to stay in your life. Love isn't defined by its length but its capacity to touch you and change you. Just because it doesn't last doesn't mean it wasn't real. You must leave for love but you also must realize when that love no longer remains. You must be strong enough to walk away from finished love to find new love. You must flee the suffocation that comes from stifled love and keep your heart open for more. You must never settle, never give in to the idea that you can't have another one. Because the world is full of things to throw your heart into, things to make you weep and realize (yet again) why you're alive.

Yep, I would move for love.

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Certainly.

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Oh, move "for" love. I thought the question was "during". Had a flashback to my ex for a minute there.

Her answer was "no", for the record...

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When I met my wife, I knew I was going to marry her, whatever it took. She was born in China and so getting a Visa to the US is almost impossible without a lot of money and connections. We came THIS CLOSE to me moving there. I had an interview with a company in Dalian that wanted to hire me for its international trade office. We found a nice house for sale there. The only reason we didn't move is my mom got sick and I needed to stay close by. My wife moved here in '04 and we've been together since.

@MissKathleen
Me too ?

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Love of an adult - No

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Definitely. Neither time nor space would prevent me from being with my loved one. Love at a distance is a deep quagmire and a no-no for me. Had such an experience (me in China, her here is Canada) and it ended badly when I moved back and we started a face-to-face relationship.

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Yes I will 🙂

rajga Level 2 Oct 28, 2018
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No way. I am way too comfortable. Change is bad!

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I did.

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That is definitely a hard one. It really depends on the timing. For now, I don't have many roots so I would but under different circumstances perhaps not.

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I can't for the next two years and 8 months because I am finishing graduate school and will be working towards my clinical license in the state of Florida.

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No. 5 kids...would be sacrificing my relationship with them unfortunately.

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Easy for me, as I have been wanting to get out of this area anyway, I do have the ability to pack up and if I had an opportunity.

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Hard to say as I am happy with my current relationship. I think I would depending on the situation. Children's needs would play a role, and culture and language would matter as well. Also the size of your spiders. Once dated a Aussie and the stories she told about giant poisonous spiders be scary.

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If I felt that there was a great connection....then maybe!

agree. connection is must

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Maybe.

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I have, but can’t imagine it happening again. I’d need to fix up and sell my house, and find a job once I got to wherever. Maybe if money weren’t a concern I’d do it.

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Id leave Indiana for much less.

Ditto, except insert Texas.

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Yes. Assuming I don't risk losing financial stability its an easy choice.

Stig Level 5 Oct 13, 2018
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