I was married to a xtian who said little to me at first, but after we were married the attempts to get me to be religious became incessant. However, I've heard others say that their marriages like that worked out fine. I guess it depends on the people involved.

Dude it can totally work. if she doesn't care what you believe or don't why should you?
I wouldn't eliminate the possibility of a good match because you don't align on your beliefs unless you think it will be a problem for you

Of course it is a big issue. Anyone who is having a nice day "by the grace of god" will sooner or later end up in tears over you because some invisible part of you is doomed to hellfire by an invisible man. I'm telling it just like it is.

For the record, have you heard of Lee Strobel? Long story short on this man he and his wife did not believe but secretly his wife and kids started going to church. Today Lee is said to be a big believer also after writing a book that was intended to disprove everything. It did not work that way and Lee wrote The Case For Christ, The Case For The Resurrection, etc. and there is the movie about it all and so forth. It seems very plain to me what Lee was doing. He was saving his marriage.I might add that these days it also makes him a pretty good living.

Go for it. I’ve been married to a Christain woman for 44 years and she’s a better woman than any of the Trump bashing, Obama loving, gun grabbing liberals

Very egocentric attitude! Sounds like your issue not hers. Either grow up or don’t waste her time. There are two of you in this!

Sure, go for it! She's probably a nice gal! Little gullible, but A-OK...

I tend to be pretty serious about relationships, so pardon me if this seems like it is looking too far ahead, but here it is:

I wouldn't want to risk falling in love with a woman who would insist on raising our children in superstitious nonsense and who would consider my atheism a threat to their well-being (just as I would consider her attempts to indoctrinate them a threat to their mental health as well).

Now you obviously can't ask her now regarding her attitudes about raising children in a mixed Christian/atheist environment, but I'm sure you can deduce her willingness to compromise and be respectful of your differences by her reaction to the news that you're an atheist. And yes, I agree with others who have said that you need to tell her promptly. If she's truly chill about it, then maybe there's hope, but if it looks like she has issues to work through with it, then it won't work long term if you plan to have kids. Issues are always harder with kids. If you are looking for a serious relationship w long-term potential, you should be looking elsewhere unless by some miracle she's actually quite easygoing about atheism.

I'm on the "you got to tell her NOW" team... She may choose to stick with it and try to change you. She may just want to be friends. Or you may change her with you persuasive, intellectual prowess. Who knows.. But you have to make sure she understands where you are now ASAP.. Good luck.

Pull the plug.

My experience has been that I married a Mormon woman when I was Mormon. When I discovered that Mormonism was a scam, I was excommunicated for apostasy, at which time my wife took the children and disappeared. I later got divorce papers. A difference of religion can cause a couple to split apart.

Take care to discuss your differences before getting too serious.

I think you need to broach the topic. Good luck!