This message from men floors me. "What does he want to know?" I wonder. My personal history? The onus is on me to entertain him.
Yesterday I got that message from a man in Germany. "I suggest you focus on women in Germany," I replied.
Reminds me of my mother. "How are you really?" Mom repeatedly asked. Because I was born prematurely, Mom saw me as delicate, even as an adult.
"What do you want, my bowel movements?" I replied, amused, to sidestep the question.