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How many of you are sick of being single?

hOtMeSs2017 4 Apr 10
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I'm looking forward to starting a new relationship when I meet the right woman but I'm a lot less tired of being single than I was tired of being in a bad marriage before my divorce lol

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Its a place where a lot of people are afraid to go. Once you go down the road by yourself you soon learn that its not the destination but the journey. Love everyone you meet and your never alone. The most valuable things about your self and your character will be told to you by someone who you recently met and never knew before. You don't have to worry about being yourself or hearing from someone you have known all of your life say something you could care less about.

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I enjoy being single; I enjoy being in a relationship. However, at my time of life I kinda relate to the scene in the movie Something's Gotta Give where Frances McDormand says and I quote:
'The over 50 dating scene is geared towards men leaving older women out and as a result the women become more and more productive and therefore more and more interesting. Which in turn makes them even less desirabe because as we all know, men especially older men, are threatened and afraid of productive and interesting women. Single older women over 50 as a demographic are about as fucked a group as can ever exist.'

Regrettably, I sympathize. I heard a tour guide (female) once in Alaska make reference to the 7:1 ratio of men to women. She said 'the odds are good, but the goods are odd'. All of us aren't as commonly portrayed, but there are plenty of reasons for that expectation. Enough that it gets really embarrassing sometimes. In fact, sometimes I've wondered about this transgender concept and considered the possibility that I'm a transgender lesbian..

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Being single or involve has its good and bad and for now concentrate in the goodness of being single untill the luky person come. Some yoga and meditation will help you to concentrate in whatever you like.

So you consider someone finding YOU as being "lucky?" Wow.

When you find someone YOU feel you are lucky to meet, then you will know it's really love, not self love.

@birdingnut we going both to be lucky

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I just became single, so no. I wouldn't mind a friend whose company I enjoyed to run around with,see movies, have an occasional meal. Some physical attraction would be a bonus, too. But I'm not eager to get emotionally immersed again.

Deb57 Level 8 Apr 10, 2018
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Sick almost cold dead.....

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yes and no....it has it's advantages and disadvantages.

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Yep. It can be quite depressing sometimes.

3

Not sick of being single, but the divorce was ugly and even after four years the scar is still touchy. Maybe, but my health would have to improve and I don't see that anytime soon.

BillF Level 7 Apr 10, 2018
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I'm sick of it. Yeah, sure, I know how to be alone and independent and bla bla fuckity fuck, but as someone else here already said, there's no rule says I have to like it. Because I don't. But I'm shite at finding a lady willing to date me, so there I am.

3

Single is good but if you're asking about getting married, I can wait. Maybe a nice girlfriend is what I need. Or would that make me not single?

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I'm n+0

5

I definitely miss having someone special in my life. I have severe social anxiety and having my "person" really helps.

But do you want a person to enjoy life with or to fix your anxiety?

Enjoy my life with for sure. I still have anxiety even when I'm in a relationship. Its nice to have someone to talk about it with among other things. In all honesty I'm just lonely and I miss having meaningful company and conversation.

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Right here!

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Not really "sick of" more like "accustom to."

Living roughly in the middle of nowhere populated almost entirely by theists, my standards for an acceptable/atheist partner are virtually unachievable so I have come to terms with living alone.

1

After going a stretch of years being attached, I'm content for the time being to be single.

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I think that I am sending out some very serious "I DON'T CARE" vibes. I'm Not exactly Mr. Charming lately......

twill Level 7 Apr 10, 2018
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Not me.....

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I know how to be alone my imagination is boundless, there is no rule says that I have to like it.

4

While I long for companionship, I have a busy an unconventional enough life that a full-time significant other would be a challenge.

4

Not exactly sick of it, I won't lower my standards just to be not single. I've seen too many people do that and get involved with someone who's not right for them. I'd rather be single than miserable.

3

Not really sick, just interested in finding cool people to hang out with. I enjoy being alone quite a bit. Once in a while finding a cute girl to take home is totally fine with me.

6

I'd settle for dating someone for more than a week without doing something weird to scare them off.

Duke Level 8 Apr 10, 2018
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It's an interesting question. I have made my life happy, with just me and my kids. Sure, I have moments where the lonliness is sto strong that it overwhelms me, but I'd rather be lovely than modify my life for the wrong people.

I'd love to find someone - someone who's life fits with mine. But it either will happen, or it won't. Either way, I stil have to keep on living.

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