I absolutely know that it doesn't matter what anyone thinks as long as you are happy with yourself.
That being said, do you find men with long hair attractive or not?
Are there stipulations on what makes it more or less attractive to you?
Funny thing, I was madly in love with David Lee Roth when I was 13-17 -- mostly because of his hair.
As an adult, I am not attracted to men with long hair -- or, for that matter, any facial hair outside of a neatly-trimmed mustache.
I also think short hair on women is sexier than long. (But, go figure, I like my own hair long. It's very short now due to a really bad hatchet job.)
Beware you answer, girls, THINK. Time can alter things drastically.
I used to have such thick, lustrous hair that when I went for a haircut the barber cut it free, then paid me for the offcuts!
Now I'm the sort of bloke that, were I vain, I would wear a toupee.
Remember! Marry in haste, repent at leisure!
I like long hair on a man but with stipulations:
It is a full head of hair, not a skinny braid down the back and bald everywhere else.
The hair is healthy--not stringy with about three inches of split ends. (This goes for women, too.)
Well, not as many stipulations as I thought.
I have hair a couple of inches past the bottom of my derriere. I find it interesting and amusing how many men tell me that their hair "was longer than that" when they were young. No, it wasn't.
Having said all that, many long haired men and women whom I see need to have anywhere from three to six inches of their hair cut off due to ragged ends.
From a chaps point of view, i.e. being more or less attractive to women, I have had both very long hair and no hair at all (shaved off for charity) For me it made no difference whatsoever, I wasn't particularly sought after either way. I suppose my wife found it attractive but she was/is a lunatic so that may not count
Long hair is fine. So is short, and so is bald. If you've got good hair, I'm probably more attracted to it being either short OR long, rather than in between. I'm not a fan of long hair on balding guys, though. If it's not a full head of hair, I'd rather see it very short or bald.
This reminds me of an old hippie "joke"....2 people are standing in traffic court both have long hair both wearing army jackets and blue jeans. ...the unknown of the two is female charged with a parking ticket. ...so the judge asks: " which one of you two has the menstrual cycle? " "Not me judge," the boy answers: " I ride a Honda"
I th.ink people should just do their th.ing regardless of what others like or believe. I graduated HS in 1977, so I always thought long hair was attractive and sexy. But bald, beards, man-buns, braids, afros, groomed, lol! it's all good. I suspect that men are more concerned about their hair than women are of men's hair.