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I can't wear rings at my new job. I thought about it and decided that I would put them on a necklace. I don't want to keep taking them off and on. I just took them off. I cried. I'm still crying. It will be ok. I had reasons that I wanted to keep wearing them but I had been thinking about taking them off. So my hand was forced a bit. I'll adjust.

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I have to take my rings off every night as my fingers swell up during the night and then I can’t get them off! I suffer from fluid retention. I have got used to doing this and keep them on a ringtree on the bedside table. Sometimes I can’t get them on for a day or two, even after taking my tablets. I like to wear mine too, but I realise that they are only symbols, and that whether they are on my finger or not, my love, and memories of Peter are unchanged in my heart.

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details, please. why can't you wear your ring?

TheDoubter Level 9 May 20, 2019

@Doraz thanks. that's logical for safety or health reasons.

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Have you thought about wearing a silicon ring. I now it's not the same but your finger won't feel as naked. And you can wear your real rings on a chain and keep them close to your heart.

freeofgod Level 8 May 20, 2019
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I’m sorry I truly am.
Some things just hit you hard and sometimes it comes out of left field.

Gypsy494 Level 7 May 20, 2019

@Doraz It will be a year next month that I lost my darling Richard. I am still wearing my wedding band. I don't want to take it off because then it will be so hard to see my finger without the ring he put on my finger. Sending hugs your way.

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