I gotta say that Redcupcoffee is the most prolific person on here, how she is not level 10 is beyond me. I don't get on here very often but when I do it's just a long list of things she has posted.
As for myself I go in bursts and fade out, have mostly given up on social media, it is summer after all and so many things to do.
But I'm sitting here after a couple of good beers and feeling sociable but it's kind of late to be calling anyone and I've got a lot of social media to catch up on and on here at least it's just about all Redcupcoffee.
And I still don't quite get the point system thing, the exponential leap of each level seems a bit redonculous. And I don't know about you but it seems to have failed at being any kind of dating or meeting people site, they just have not manage to pull in enough users. I mean I live near Chicago and there is barely anyone close.
Has anyone met anyone face to face? Has anyone even flirted? THough I will admit that if anyone flirted with me I probably wouldn't realize it, but so far I think I've avoided any of that.
So how is everyone feeling? What do you think of this point system? Any 10's? Anyone know any 10's? Anyone find a date or at least give out any real phone numbers? I was tempted to give out my phone number just to see if anyone would text me., I'm a white guy, I ain't afraid of nuttin', plus the beers I had were pretty strong so I'm feeling it.
Maybe I'm just too old for this shit, I've grown too accustom to talking into the void and not really worried about if anyone actually hears me.
Redcupcoffee waddia doing? What do you think of this site?
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.I wish I was having more conversations but most people here want to hook up. Okay but that's not my thing. Guessing that's why I don't have a lot of messages going on.
MissaDixon
Level 7
Aug 18, 2018
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I mostly dabble on here, too much in real life keeping me busy. But every so often I dive in to see what's here and to spout off my two cents.
I've met 6 people from here face to face...a few as just friends too.
Maybe the mere fact that you tell women in your BIO that they are never going to be anything but 2nd Place to you is a big turn-off...
I mean, seriously, why would anyone put any effort into you when they will never be your #1?
Here's a clue...your kid is going to grow up, get married...move away. Your Significant Other is going to be the person BY YOUR SIDE the rest of your life....but they're always going to be 2nd place? And then what? 3rd, 4th, 5th as you get grandchildren?
Ew. No thanks. I wouldn't take that deal from anyone.
SkotlandSkye
Level 8
Aug 16, 2018
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Lvl ten, one million points. Haha won't see that anytime soon. Even if you post twenty times a day. Been here little over a month. But have already heard of a few people who got together for relationships and visits. Lots have formed friendships, and who knows where that could lead. Sites been up only about a year. Give it time.
sellinger
Level 7
Aug 16, 2018
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I feel you are dissatisfied here, maybe it isn’t for you. I suppose it depends what you are looking for in the first place, and how high your expectations are! I am not here to meet a new partner and I don’t believe it would be an effective medium if I was. People here are scattered over a very wide geographical range, I would think that looking in a more localised area would be more productive. As far as the points system.....that I find interesting, it is not a motivation for me to post or reply but merely a byproduct of doing so. The interchange of ideas and listening to new music is what keeps me coming back here.
Marionville
Level 10
Aug 16, 2018
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I should have said, I haven’t much noticed posts by Redcupcoffee!
Neither satisfied nor dissatisfied, just kind of meh, it's here just like facebook or google or linkedin or any of the other social sites trying to till a niche. I have zero expectation beyond just a place to put my two cents on occasion.
@ThomasLevi I hope you get more out of it than you seem to be at present. Just have an open mind, zero expectation sounds rather negative to me. I always think a positive attitude gets better results than a negative one. You may find a surprise awaits.....!
@Marionville Not negative, just neutral. I have more than enough going on in the real world that I am not to worried about finding something on line. You get out of it what you put in, and I don't put in all that much.
@ThomasLevi You are very honest, being self aware is important. I can understand what you mean....some people need to get more out if it so put more effort in. I’m glad you have other things going on in the real world, it would be sad if that were not so.
She blocked me because she thought I made a post talking h about her when I was talking about someone completely different lol
Simon1
Level 7
Aug 16, 2018
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Yeah....she blocked me too...but I have no idea why. I didn't even know it until this post....and, honestly, I don't remember her at all.
I know of 5 or 6 happy couples who met here. One couple just moved in together. It's not hopeless. The singles chat is where 3 (I Think)of those couples got together.
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Aug 16, 2018
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