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When was the last time that you were in love?

Sunsetmermaid 5 Nov 16
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I don't appear to do the catch fire in love thing. More the slow build to "I love you" thing, after my many layers of "don't wanna get hurt" walls start coming down. I thought I was heading that way with someone (definitely made it to the vulnerable phase), but it looks like maybe I should have reinforced the walls instead.

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Dec 4th 2016

I admire the specificity.

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Not 100% certain I’ve ever been truly in love.

Same

Me either. I know that I've never been loved. Our boomer generation are very stingy with love. Every moment feels like "what is in it for me". Men now do not want be bothered with any disruption from constant sports or Fox news. About 20 years ago white men stopped flirting and laughing and making time for anyone. We boomer are a very narcisstic generationa that doesn't even connect with a neighbor. In the south, I would bet a good 70% are alcoholics.

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Happy to share Dan and I met in Singles/Mingle/Chatroom and fell in love. We have been living together in bliss for going on 5 months. It does happen here. We are not the only ones.

Any lesbians in there, or is it all just hetero?

@memorylikeasieve there's a transwomen and woman who met there too. We have mixed chatrooms and sexually themed chatrooms-Sexual Deviants among them.

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Once upon a time ago. I will fall in love again, however. It will happen soon. I will love him faithfully for the rest of my life.

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Very very recently.

I didn't think you did that. That's nice.

@Sticks48 Well, I don’t post everything in public you know.

@graceylou I know, but sometimes you come off kind of cynical when it comes to that sort of thing. 🙂

@Sticks48 I’m not made of stone.

@graceylou That is nice to know, for your sake.

@Sticks48 But I can build walls few I let through.

@graceylou I understand that. I have sort of gotten that way. I wish l haden't, but there it is.

@Sticks48 I can be a very loving person but that makes me vulnerable and I tend to get hurt so walls up.

@graceylou Sometimes I'm not sure l have the emotional energy for it anymore.

@Sticks48 Yup. My heart is too bruised.

@Sticks48 WoW, yes. me too. We women are the heavy lifters in any male relationship.

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So recently that the pain of its loss still lingers like a wound. I can still taste her kisses and still smell her on my pillows. She haunts my dreams every night and it keeps me awake.

so sorry. I have never picked a guy that loved me. I hope you arent picking narcissists like me.

@Sunsetmermaid she is a wonderful lovely woman but she has many obstacles to overcome and didn't want be to climb them with her.

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Hmm, let me think...when was the last time Dinosaurs roamed the Earth?

You are too young and pretty to not find love. Go outside of your age bracket and racial set. White men are not even thinking about a good relaxed laughing fun life. They are all still trying to make a history book. Get involved in a passion and you will at least have men around you working for a goal. Try something radically different. Leave whatever demographic hurt you alone.

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Not as of yet, but in approximately 30,000 years, that will change. However, it will take more than two more centuries before I tell him. He will have known he has felt then same way for most of that time, of course.

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Truly? Summer of 1987. I adored her. She used me. Her loss.

sad. it was her loss. people who use people lack empathy and are narcissists.

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I'm always in love.
I've never married.
I always dream of a wife and our future children... I love them soooo much...

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To quote the old song....”Long ago, and far away”! I fell in love twice in my life...once in 1965 and he died in 1968, and then again in 1971 when I met my husband and loved him till he died eight years ago. Will I ever fall in love again....who knows?

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Right now. ??

Edit. Meh.

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Tuesday! No, Monday! It was one of those days.

lucky you.
please tell how you do it. I would like be loved just once before I die.

@Sunsetmermaid Not once, ever? ?

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1996-1997 our apartment complex had a party she looked me I looked at her smile attraction, its alright right there¡
a beautiful thing...
we' were inseparable for over a year life is good and then she got pregnant I wanted to have a child carry on. Live Life As we were....
she was younger late twenties didn't want to give up her body, didn't want go to the nine months and all that....
I could understand but it was obviously not meant to be...
when we made that decision it was like the beginning of the end ...
and at that point I knew I didn't feel the same way about her ....
I understood in my mind her needs and it made sense ....
there's still that little
part of me that was like" you killed my child" ....
and course I never said anything ...
but began to sabotage the relationship.
Years later we got some closure and today I think of her often and I ismile
hope that all is well in her world and I'm glad I'm finding peace in mine.

OneLove always ¡

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2009-to-date...

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Long ago in a galaxy far far away.

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Over 20 years ago.

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With myerlf? This morning upon waking.
: o )

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never

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  1. Yikes! I'm overdue
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Too fucking long ago.

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Ask Miss Havisham.

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Previous life.

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