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I work in retail...….not a religious entity. One of our managers has begun saying, after our morning meetings, or even in passing after a short chat, "have a blessed day". I find this offensive, and have decided to start saying b "hail satan" in response. We'll see how this goes.

AzVixen52 7 May 5
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It's annoying, right? I can handle the passive aggressive shit like that. It's them cashiers or retail associates out here trying to personally bring souls to Jesus that get on my nerves.

I can't count how many times bitch-faced, lunchlady arms having ass middle-aged women with a southern drawl have stared me down at the end of a purchase and said "god bless you" in a way that feels like a challenge because they don't say it nicely, they say it like they're hoping you'll sprout horns so they have an excuse to shoot you.

But yeah, it's annoying in all forms.

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A physician's Assistant (PA) use to say, "Have a Blessed Day" as he was going out the door after an exam. He never dwelled at the door long enough for me to tell him his comment was inappropriate and leave religion out of my medical exams. He didn't last very long at the doctor's office. And I never said anything to my MD. Otherwise, he was a great PA.
I'm glad I'm retired and don't have to deal with religious bosses.

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Annoying, and yet another of many ways to assume a belief in the supernatural is the norm.

If I sneeze, and someone says "Bless You!", I say "No!, Thankyou!"

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I work as a graphic artist, and get that sort of thing all the time from religious clients. Annoying though it is, I do not take offense, as they are just trying to be nice in the only way they know how. If, however, your manager knows you are a non-believer, and is saying it just to irritate you, then perhaps you have a right to go on the offensive. I do not, though, see where referencing an Abrahamic archangel to demonstrate that you don't believe in Abrahamic religions is in any way beneficial. Of course you could try something totally outrageous, like explaining to the person that you are a non-believer and it would make you happier if they just said "Have a nice day", which, while not nearly as dramatic, might make things run smoother at the store. As always, the decision is entirely yours. Have a mediocre day.

And my decision stands.

You can always say "You have a rational day!"

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I've had the people who work at Five Guys say that to me. I just blow it off. Sometimes I wonder if the expression means to go fuck myself.

I couldn't blow it off. But now I know why I never eat at 5 guys!

@AzVixen52 but the burgers are really good, though

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I wish everyone who commented or even viewed your post would check this.
EEOC Compliance Manual Section 12 - Religious Discrimination
12 - III HARASSMENT
[eeoc.gov]

Thank you!!

Excellent examples...

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No the perfect solution, but you might try Blessed Be. Witches use it as a friendly parting comment. So, if the manager turns red, green, or purple you’ll know they are onto the saying. If they don’t turn some strange color, then you’ll get confirmation that that are clueless.

CS60 Level 7 May 5, 2019

I like my response

@AzVixen52 Your response may be more appropriate. I don’t know the entire situation - whether or not you’ve had a discussion with the manager, whether or not the manager is doing this to harass you, is just a dumb twit, or just wants you to have a great day and is not conveying that in an appropriate way.

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Depending on which retail service you work for try going to HR or even outside the actual store (my company has a phone number outside our store if you aren't comfortable speaking within). In the company I work for religion is to be kept out of the workplace. Food for thought especially if you need to keep your job - if not, hail satan sounds good.

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Be little more tolerant,imho

We know what they say about opinions....

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Just say goodbye or something similar, the worship of SATAN is acknowledging there is a God, as he is the antithesis of the Devil. Try something else unless you want to look for another job. Still you would want a good reference and not a snarky one.

I like my response

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I ignore it, or smile and say thank you.

I don't!

@AzVixen52 the point is they have good intentions, and if I want to maintain goodwill with them (and I usually do), I ignore it.

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LOL . . . That is going to definitely get a reaction . . . . I love that response too! These clowns may even make the mistake of retaliating . . . . meaning legal problems for them.

Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964 prohibits employers from discriminating against individuals because of their religion (or lack of religious belief) in hiring, firing, or any other terms and conditions of employment.

Good record keeping is a must if you run into something like that . . .

Another alternative is simply tell the manager that you are a non-believer, and that you find it offensive, and request they cease doing it. If they do not, then the onus is on the manager, and the company then has to deal with it . . . . and how they deal with it could have further implications. This might be the better of the two options, because it would create a trail, especially if you do it were others are present to see it.

I can relate, because I hate it when jackasses like that bray their same old song and dance and it gives me the direct impression they are trying to impose their bull shit on me.

THHA Level 7 May 5, 2019
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You could always reply to "Have a blessed day" with "GORDON`S ALIVE" at the top of your lungs

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It's perfectly reasonable to be offended by constantly being told to "have a blessed day". It doesn't matter what the intention behind it is.
The believers run roughshod over the rights of everyone else.
I'm sick of "live and let live". It doesn't work.
It's how we got to where we are with SOOOOO much of their bullshit influence
in everyone's lives.
Hail satan.
I hope it works, and you don't live in an "at-will" state, in case you get fired.

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For me I could care less it's a group of words, if someone wishes me a good day I wish them the same, with the qualifier, unless they made other plans. If I wish somebody a good day I wish them a good day and follow up with, unless you made other plans. that way it's up to them.

I like it...am going to spread it..

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I agree with Vivian but you could also reply with "so be it." This will go into Wiccan ideas but is also a literal translation of "amen."

Not my style. I'm always direct.

@AzVixen52 EXCELLENT! If I overheard that I would approach you and ask if you have a husband or boyfriend!

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It's funny but pointlessly confrontational. They are obviously trying to be nice. So what if they're including their superstition, why would that be offensive? You sound a little "snowflake".

If someone references a religion or belief in some kind of supernatural power, they are not just trying to be nice, they are imposing their belief on you.

As do you.

@AzVixen52, please explain what belief I am trying to impose on you by saying, "Have a great day!"

@Spidey Oh, NOW you are playing nice after your previous comment? Oy vey.

@AzVixen52, you have my opinion, which has not changed, and I asked you a legit question. Not sure what the "playing nice after..." reference means. If you don't understand my comment, I will do my best to exlain, but if you're not interested in having (an adult) conversation, please feel free to move on.

@Spidey No more than I would be if I referenced something scientific in conversation. I agree that there's a way to be an ass about it, but wishing something you believe to be good on someone isn't that. You're being overly sensitive.

I am NOT a snowflake! I am also (myself) very polite when I first let people know I do not like to have people "bless" me when I sneeze, BUT, after I explain that, it IS rude of them to deliberately continue. Some old people forget, so I try to be nice, but when they continue I will admonish them as politely as I can! I will never be socialist and agree with the Austrian economists! I am a student of Frederick Hyat Murry Rothbard and Milton Friedman - VERY much NOT a snowflake!

@JOHNGALT What the hell does Austrian Economy have to do with it? Now you sound like a snowflake and a conspiracy theorist. Unless English isn't your first language and you don't realize that was irrelevant. You're far too easily offended, that's what I mean by snowflake.

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I would say that's an appropriate response.. if you believe in satan. I prefer less friction in the work place. If they try to make it more personal then bring it ti her superiors attention if you feel you need to respond to her say something innocuous like don't "get run over" ..i prefer humor I guess.

I guess

@F-IM-Forty I could use the time off and unemployment check, but then again, they'd miss my sarcastic ass too much!

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I think that people who offer such a salutation do so with a positive attitude, and do not realize that to a non-religious person is it somewhat offensive. I do not like it when someone says that to me, but I take it in the spirirt in which it is intended. I might smile, or I might simply ignore it. I try to not let it upset me, and I would certainly not want to engage horns with someone who might have the power to make the job either miserable or disappear!

My style is more direct.

@AzVixen52 - Yes, it is more direct, and you will easily convey your contempt or lack of agreement. That is not a bad thing, but my question is if you really want to add to the workplace discomfort? Is there a human resource department, or a person with whom you might discuss the issue? Can you not find a non-confrontational manner in which to assert your displeasure? Yes, we like to defend our position, or fight back on something to which we take exception, but this is your workplace, and surely you realize that your passive-aggressive attitude might cause you problems beyond expressing your dislike of the statement?

@Rustee Considering she adds to my discomfort, I see nothing wrong with that I do.

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Irritating

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It irritates me as well... mostly because I don't like being told to do anything...no thanks, I prefer to have a shitty day...ugh

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I’ve noticed religious dog whistles a lot more lately. I guess I’m more sensitive or annoyed by it now. But I just shrug it off. A couple weeks ago, I was asked to pray after a game. LOL So awkward.

Years ago my daughter would play with a church group soccer team they would ask me to pray with them after the game.
I didn't want to be confrontational I just said it wasn't appropriate for me, they never stopped insisting

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I have to agree with a lot of other people commenting: not a good idea. Just let it go, it is about as inconsequential as something can possibly get.

Not my style

@AzVixen52 Good luck, then.

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No, not a good idea. Take the person aside and suggest something else.

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If he/she is saying it directly to you then, try speaking him/her in private. Or, add "or for us not religious, have a great day" my e, they'll take the hint.

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