I fully support people being able to end their lives whenever they see fit.
For whatever reasons they have.
I don't think anyone else is remotely qualified to determine whose reasons
are valid, and whose are not.

I have been fighting battles with the medical establishment about my 94 year old Mom. She is (or was) pretty independent. The decline at the hospital was quite stunning - lets pump her full of drugs, not feed her, or give her enough water. She just put in rehab after a short hospital stay. Finally getting enough food, minimal drugs, but they still want to do everything for her. Twice in 2 days I had to tell them to stop and that she can dress/undress herself. I understand they are in a rush - multiple patients, but very frustrating.

None of us want that path. A person working in a funeral parlor once told me they wanted death with dignity. I replied that death has no dignity. We are born toothless and bald headed. If we live long enough we might exit this same way.

We are kinder to animals than to each other in this regard. Selfishly keep an animal alive to suffer because you want to avoid or postpone the grieving process, and people shame you for it. Do it to a human and they applaud it. Go figure.

Sometimes we're unkind to ourselves as well. My oldest brother wanted to avoid amputation when diagnosed with an aggressive and rare bone cancer on one leg. I begged him to follow medical advice. I told him if it was me I'd order it removed and if they wouldn't do it I'd rip it off myself and club them over the head with it. I told him we'd all chip in for a state of the art prosthetic. But while he wasn't one of those charismatic nutters, he was convinced on some level god would come through for him so he doctor-shopped until he found someone who would try to save the leg. He died five months later with a tumor the size of a canteloupe on the side of his leg. Crying all the while that god had abandoned him and he couldn't figure out why.

This is one of the most graphic reasons I see fundagelicalism as a great harm. It purposely removes empowerment and self determination and makes life more rather than less painful and then tries to elevate that cruelty into a virtue.

I've told all of my family that if my cancer comes back I will not do the treatment protocol as it is now and I'll just take the time I have left. It is much less successful than the initial protocol and a lot worse. This may change and I'd evaluate it away that time, but as it is now I would move and obtain residence in a state that allowed euthanasia with terminal illness and enjoy the time I have left.

Um, no. Try a cliff.
Sorry, being flippant, yes the campaign for death with dignity is a worthy one and so many don’t join it until it’s crux point. I’m sure your national or local groups would appreciate your support.
Having worked with people at end of life, and lost people to cancer, there is a definite point that most don’t want to live to. When you need morphine for pain every time you come around is probably too far past it for most.

it's not really my style, but the way Clint Eastwood dealt with it in that Gran Torino movie was pretty clever.

I plan on stepping in front of a train....always bearing in mind I must still be mobile to make that happen. And yes, I feel bad for the engineer, but I will leave a note & he will get counseling.....

If you intend to take yourself out, better make arrangements while you're still mobile and capable. Once you're in that hospital bed, drugged up and tubed up, it will be too late.

Neither do I dad had a quick death mom died of cancer slowly, quick is better

I don't know if N Carolina has death with dignity rights. I live in Oregon which I believe was the first or one of the first to enact death with dignity. It's comforting to know we have that option.

I'd prefer something less painful than a bus, but certainly plan to do it on my terms.

My dad just died yesterday. He went in for sepsis and pneumonia and was there 11 days. The last day we forcibly removed him from the ventilator and allowed him to quietly go on his own. No pain, made comfortable, when problems began, we insisted, made comfortable! He went how he wanted. No machines.....

No, no bus. That is not very dignifying and can be very messy and what says that you will die. You may be a vegetable. Better get some nembutal.

Knowing my luck, I'll die in some sort of weird and absurd way.

Like a giant molasses flood (such has happened once... [the flood, i mean, not my dying], a hundred years ago).

Then I'm donating my carcass to science.

When my time comes, I hope I'm walking across my cotton field and ZAP!! I get hit by lightning.

Yes if the time comes when I can't have dignity shoot me please

I believe there might be a less painful alternative than the bus....but I take your point. And I agree - the time and place and manor of our passing should be ours to make.

Death by nitrogen asphyxiation is effective, painless and simple to administer.

I think when the pain is too much no one else can fairly gage that except the person suffering. If a person has no escape from suffering but the end, that is their choice.

I, like you, am aging and the prospect of some long slow drawn out death is not appealing.
However "Hit me with the Bus" reminds me of a news story 4-5 years ago in Nor Cal. A man, terminal and awaiting a long slow death, decided no. So he booked a helicopter ride, and about 2000 up, unbuckled and jumped out.
Fell 2000 ft into the ocean and survived, was rescued, and had his condition horribly worsened, and rendered himself incapable of consent for the legal and approved "compassionate death" of CA.

SO maybe a little more thought than a random bus might be in order?

Many states (all the west coast ones) have Death with Dignity program. It is spreading to more states but these tend to be the more liberal ones. Good luck with any program that addresses compassion in the religious south. The is a site that helps people exit easier. It's called "Final Exit." [finalexitnetwork.org]

I'm with you. But please keep in mind the poor bus driver and anyone else who witnesses your demise. If you end it at home please bear in mind any first responder or anyone else who might find your body.

I have considered a large plastic bag over my head tied around the neck. It will at least be a clean scene for some poor unfortunate to find.

I couldn't agree more. Both my parents died unexpectedly in their sleep (at different times of course). As hard as it was not being able to say goodbye, the fact that there was no suffering on their part was what got me through.

The question that comes to mind is, why are you on this mind set today? Any particular reason you may want to elaborate?