I have experienced infatuation, but I've never been on the receiving end. Thank goodness I'm old and cynical now.

Some people can't make the distinction between love and infatuation. Love isn't desperate to get in a hurry.

I do not find it normal. Only people that say that, in my experience, are narcissists and they do not mean it they are just love bombing a person. At that stage it is infatuation lust or a crush but sure as hell not love. I also never throw that word around willy nilly and I am always the 2nd person in my past relationships to say it, once I actually feel and mean it.

Some people are naive or innocent enough to think that love and relationships are just like on TV and movies. The rest of us are lucky enough to be older and wiser. Lust and infatuation at first sight happen. Love takes much longer to be real and lasting.

Love at first sight is bullshit. I believe there's lust at first sight, Interest at first sight, infatuation, desire, even obsession but actual love takes time to develop.

I have to say I blame religion for this. If you’re told you have to be in love and married to have sex, then you sacrifice good sense and reason for libido.

Love after 2 weeks is an indication of good old lust combined with someone looking for a fairytale.

As has been mentioned, I think divorce is much more complex than could be covered under one umbrella. Perhaps some people don't consider love as deep a connection or commitment as others? I don't know that I can speak to that.

I was 28 when I met my future husband and up until then, had only told two men I loved them. Although we knew each other at work, my husband proposed 17 days after our first date, and we were married until his death. After that, however, I was much more selective about who I dated and how much access they had to my kids. In fact, they had pretty much none. Although I may have been extremely protective, I think your girlfriend should have been a lot more selective in who she introduced to her kids to, love or not.

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I agree. I have only been dating Bob a little over a month. We spend our weekends and midweek with each other but still getting to know each other. I have thought past relationships were love after 2 weeks. No more. Love takes time. My girls are grown. When they were younger they saw mom fall in love several times. This is real life not a tv program, movie or play.

No, I don't think it is the reason for the high divorce rate in the US. There are so many factors, that would be one of the minor ones in my humble opinion. Sometimes people confuse what type of love they are in. I will never love a man like I love my grands, and whereas I love my kids enough to take a bullet for them, I love the grands enough to make an effort to intercept that bullet before it gets close to them. Part of it, I think, is wishful thinking. If I tell you I love you, then it will come true. And part of it is convincing yourself that this is "the one" because you're actually sick of the searching process. And face it, those of us over 60 have had a different upbringing than most of the population. To the younger folks it might not be a big deal. To me, it is a big deal. I'm not going to say it until I am sure of it and that it is safe to say it. I think "love at first sight" is likely lust, just your hormones talking.

I feel sorry for the kids. It must be a confusing life fir them.

You might look into Borderline Personality Disorder, if very curious. They work fast! I’d experienced the same (with one), suggestions of marriage not far behind.. Problem was, I eventually fell in love with her, and ..admitted it And I’m as reluctant, or serious about it as you...

This is one I expect to learn more from others than my own experience. Married, far too young, for nearly 3 decades, I still take ‘love’ very seriously. Have been in love once since my brush with BPD. ...talked with ‘her’ a bit today.. Not only my total lack of attraction to her, but this internal feeling of - Dog Damn - did I dodged a bullet ...leaves me happily free for.. more freedom