Name something women should stop doing.
Gossiping about others.
hahhahahahaha And you think men don't have this trait???
@MsDemeanour I only speak from personal observation.
Women, (especially conventionally attractive women) have a tendency to raise their standards, where it concerns their romantic interests, so high, that they set themselves up for disappointment and relationship problems that they can blame men for. Not all things that men do wrong are the relationship problems women blame them for, but I've noticed setting that men up to fail is a common tendency among women. Instead, they should sometimes be asking " Was I expecting too much " or " Should this make me upset? " or " Have I got a right to demand that a man meet this expectation? ".
Because you can't reach their standards it doesn't mean they must lower them to your level.
@DUCHESSA I don't lower the standards for people. I raise the standards of everyone in any room. I wish I was bragging.
Had to read all the comments to make sure I didn't repeat one. I wish people (mainly women) would stop being subtle when they want something. All you have to do is ask.
Answering online surveys about what they should stop doing...
Basing their whole lives around sprogs and giving up their own dreams, hopes, goals, and careers. If your "greatest achievement" is doing a common biological act that occurs 200,000 times a day....then what a sad, sad life. I wish women, in general, thought more of themselves.
Biology is NOT an achievement. That's like saying that taking a shit, vomiting, or masturbating is an achievement.
@SkotlandSkye It is to some people !
@SkotlandSkye have a kid might not be a great achievement. But raising one is. When my ex wife and I adopted my son he became our lives. Everything we do resolves around him. I consider giving him the best life I can a worthy aspiration.
Plastic surgery - why change your body?
Women should avoid posting their personal problems on social sites....your personal problem requires personal solutions....Not a social attention?
Shaving.
But sometimes it is a necessity !
@VAL3941 I don't think you understand what a neccesity is. Also you're gross.
The same work for less money.
I already work for so luttle they would have to do it for free.
It is not as much what they should stop doing as what they should start doing. It is about action, not inaction. If a person stops doing something he or she must replace it with another action. Men and women alike should start focusing on finding something for which they have a passion and pursue it vigorously. By profession, I am a substance abuse counselor and worked for six and a half years with adolescents. The one thing that I asked them that left them speechless was “name one thing about which you are passionate”. The number one response was “I don’t know. I’ve never thought about it”. I gave them a homework assignment. I told them to come back the next Day ready to tell me at least one thing that they are passionate about. The transformation was amazing - and that was just from THINKING about it. We all need to find something for which we have a passion. Something that brings us joy and contributes in a positive way to the life of men, women, children, animals, and this planet. Then pursue that passion as if we are going to die tomorrow. In a nutshell, we all need to fill that hole deep within ourselves with passion and find purpose in our lives.
Long answer to a simple question but point taken !
Undermining eachother.
Being afraid of voicing disagreement
Trying to think for themselves . That should wind a few of you up !
Aren't you asking for the impossible ?
@VAL3941 Hope is the last thing to die ! We carry on like this and someone will have me terminated with prejudice !!
@MarcIveson By who, Mata Hari ?
@VAL3941 And look what happened to her .
@MarcIveson so far no one has comment on this conversation. Hope we get some fallout.
Women should stop dating men and date more hot feminine lesbians, like me.
If you were hetro, I would be in the front of the queue
Here here
You realise that you've just broken my heart don't you ?
Apologizing for not taking on tasks/duties when asked by others who usually are shirking work or who think their lack of foresight should constitute someone else's emergency.
Example of response, "I'm sorry, I'm not able to help with x..." why aplogize? We are not obligated to help when asked & males don't normally fall into this speech pattern.
I have made a point to avoid the apology (and subsequent guilt) with, "I do not have the bandwidth to take anything extra on. Once i've cleared my plate, if you still need help, I can pitch in then." I do check with the person to see if they still need help (9x out of 10, they don't) & if they do, i will pitch in. This has not damaged my reputation as a team player but has cut down on lazy assholes asking me for anything.
Truth be said, I agree.
Most stereotypes are completely biased and culturally based. Take 'nagging' for instance. Men can nag as much as women but along with the long list of female adjectives: slut, whore, cunt, feisty, frumpy, airhead, bitchy, bombshell, bossy (men are more likely to be called 'strong-minded)' bubbly, ditsy, emotional, frigid, hormonal, hysterical, illogical, irrational, pushy, shrill, sassy, they have been invented by men, to keep women subserviant. eg: It's ok for a man to be a slut but not a woman. Words like hysterical, irrational, illogical are used to discard female points of view.
According to neuroscientists using MRIs it is impossible to tell a male brain from a female.
these adjectives have evolved culturally. For millions of years women were kept subjegated because they weren't physically as strong.
You would think that with the gender divide narrowing we could embrace people as individuals instead of being so quick to judge.
Laugh my desr,, laugh. You just gave me a lecture..
ok. they should quit taking any notice of frivolous men