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Gentlemen, could you please give me some insight concerning unsolicited pictures of male genitalia? I've been on the very surprised & unhappy receiving end of such pictures. I'm far from a prude but to suddenly find the inclusion of a piece of male anatomy that I never said that I wanted to see, is a bit of a turn off. Any chance that a man may have had with me before that, is now gone. Why do some men assume that a woman automatically wants to see his junk? I thought he was an interesting man to chat with & then, there was a picture of his penis. That just killed it.

MermaidSuzy888 6 May 28
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Really sad. I've had this happen to me, too. Not on here, though... Gives new meaning to the term "junk mail' (apologies, it's early morning).

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Apparently it's an Internet version of puffing your chest out to attract a mate . The individuals sending them think they have little to offer and less time . So sending a photo is quick easy and direct . It's even been said that it can be addictive as sending 100's and then getting one response is quiet the buzz . I wish it was an education thing such a not knowing the law but they have found that men from all walks of life have sent them . There's probably a few studies on the matter

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Ive been there before, so I understand. one guy BEGGED my to let him send it. another guy sent one of him putting a shot into it, to help it harden. when I want to see their junk I'll ask. ive seen enough in my life very few dicks impress me. such a turn off

prostrate problems are why they do the shot and they loose effectiveness over time also he is usually less than what he was sometimes they have to take part of the penis when they operate

you just haven't seen the good ones darlin

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Is that the same as high tech flashing? Doing that in person is a crime. I don't see how doing that over Email or text would be any different. Call the cops!

really that is your solution if it offends block that person otherwise get with it

@whiskywoman : You must be kidding. Maybe you like getting that sent to you unsolicited but how is getting that in a text any better than a flasher exposing himself in person? These are sex crimes.

@dare2dream if you see one dick you kinda wanna see them all and that's the culture now of course if you ask hi to stop and he won't then that is different don't be such a prude

@whiskywoman : I see. Times are different now. I'm old fashioned. I'm sure if you ASK you'll get lots of shots from some men. But some women don't want that. To each her own.

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I am equally perplexed.

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I don't get it, either.

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Second post of this ilk today. I'll ask again: Who the hell thinks this kind of shit is a turn on?

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Is this happening through Tinder, by chance? My friend quit Tinder for mainly that reason. I have not encountered it on other sites.

@MermaidSuzy888 wow that sucks.

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I do not understand how any thinking male could think that this is a good idea. I'm assuming that it happens a lot as there is much noise about this phenomena. I guess this happens in the wild with birds trying to win the favor of females to mate, but in human settings I have no defense of this puerile behavior.

Like the birds, we are animals with instincts to. Some of those instincts are hard to control and harder for some than others. But we're human isn't a defence, is no reason for instinct to not be still in control a lot of the time.

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I've never really understood it. Unless a gal has asked to see it and its someone im willing to show, I mean you'd assume everyone would be that way. You'd think there would be some kind of law about exposing yourself unwanted like that to others.

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Men, as a group, online, are stupid. I feel they take the approach volume - send many girls a picture and hopefully one will respond positively. But I don't get why they stick with that tactic, given how many people advise AGAINST that. It's ineffective.

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Just reply with " LMAO ". Then you can move on.

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I don't get it. I think it is insulting and demeaning to the woman. I will put up a pic of me and it will be above the sholulders.
Marty

fibus Level 2 May 30, 2018
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Wouldn't do it without prior agreement.

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This is the equivilant of a molester pervert in the subway station. Report the smarmy creep.

no its not

@whiskywoman yes it is. your turn

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It boggles my mind, how people do this. There is a proper time for sharing -- and it's after you ask permission. 🙂

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Awww hell Suzy.... theres not sure answer to stop that. I understand your statement. Put it on your profile that pictures of their body are not wanted and those people will be blocked.... there you go...lol.

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Some boys never escape puberty.

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i love dick pics some are laughable and some impressive i wanna know what im getting before i get it

[goo.gl]

@MermaidSuzy888 then insult him and say " wow dude how can you be proud of that tiny thing"

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if I was chatting with a woman and it was all going nicely and a picture of her pussy appeared in all its glory I would be gobsmacked. not because I'm shy or anything but just why do I want to see that.it's like saying a sentence like "I went down the shops earlier vagina" just fucking strange thing to do out of context. I've done cybersex and it's quite horny I thought but still no actual dick pics or just pussy shots.

I don't send those unsolicited for sure

@whiskywoman I'm sure you don't

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I thought it was because I was older and out of touch but that does not seem to be a promising approach.

can be fun

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Did that occur on this site? I think the door can swing both ways on that topic. Before coming here I was active on two other social media/messaging apps and received unsolicited photos of women's bottoms (I don't mean rear end either) from those who I did not even chat with. Spamming became so bad that I left, being that Admin on both sites could not do much about it. I haven't received any vulgar photos on this site yet, but have received a few messages from female members that crossed the line. Funny thing is, I'm not even here for dating and my bio says so.

I scrolled down and read some of the replies. Sorry to hear that occured on this site, and for the most part this site has been good. Is the individual in question a regular member on here who is consistently active? Regardless if you wanted to report him or not I would certainly block people like that, of course the only problem with that is they could just start another sock puppet account to troll on.

@MermaidSuzy888 Ah okay, I see. I'm glad that you decided to stay here, this site is really interesting and Admin has made some improvements. I wouldn't pay attention to what one creep did and possibly turn you off to this site. I'm not really here to date, but I am open to chatting sometime with any women who might be interested. I'm active on here just about everyday, if you ever wanted to chat just let me know. Take care in the meantime.

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Yes,manners or lack of,has killed any potential further conversations,waving around a Male's reproductive organ.

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I'd be more than shocked,enraged, I'd find out who and burn down his house. Did it arrive via e mail? Do you believe someone from this website?

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I'd ask him how he lost his thumbnail. But that's just me.

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