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Religious Homosexuals

Why are there gay people who are religious?

If god's word states in Romans that homosexuality is a sin and an abomination. Why on earth are there homosexuals who still workship him? Just because in most verses in the Bible god claims to love his people does not mean he accepts your lifestyle. You can't focus on the pretty stuff. This concept of god is man made because there is no consistency in gods word. Now there are churches accepting homosexuals. So religion is man made organization. Am I the only one who thinks it's all bullshit?

Tendix 5 June 18
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These are not necessarily "God's" words, as they are interpretations of what God says. Basically, gays are not accepting God, they are rejecting mainstream religion. Regardless of the fact I don't believe in God, I can still appreciate the distinction they make in their decision to believe.

godef Level 7 June 18, 2018

Believe fine, but why join a church, what would you say to a black man who wanted to Join the KKK, because he really hated black people?
The comparison is no exaggeration, the only reason Christians don't stone gays is because they don't like the pillow case over the head look any more, but the KKK got that look from the Spanish Roman Catholic church Semanas in the first place, who wore the hoods to not be recognized when killing "Misbelievers".

@LenHazell53 I'm just saying that it's evident to me there is no real conflict in gays believing in God, that they believe directly in their god, and not in the bullshit rules made up by bigots in the name of that god. I've stated before, that as an American patriot, that I am committed to individuals having the freedom to believe whatever they want. I will only get feisty if they in turn try to use that belief to manipulate laws that ultimately affect me. It really is a two way street.

I came to the understanding it was entirely inspiration, not actual, and that anything in it can be rewritten according to the wants of the hierarchy. I think people are realizing more and more that they can be in charge of their own spirituality and connection to what they believe is deity and use that to rewrite the rules for themselves. When enough people get together with that in mind, things change. It gets rough and takes time but they do change.

I think between so many people leaving orthodox Christianity in particular and religion in general, and so many trying to change things, be so modern and progressive, religions are going to have to step up or step out to meet the needs of the people... providing that is their intent in the first place. You never know with some sects.

@godef But the bullshit rules are created by their god. Romans 1 vs 26,26 states that homosexuality is unnatural and an abomination. The bible is God's word so Christians are only following his word. God can't start loving you for who you naturally are if who you naturally are is an abomination. Therefor god is man made and therefore he doesn't fuckin exist. When I was 6 I made up an imaginary friend who was real to me and never teased or call me names. Same thing with god.

@Tendix Religion is man made. We don't even believe in God on this site, so we know this. What I'm saying is, it's not impossible that religious gays are interested in a benevolent god, and not the god of Southern Baptists and other bigoted religions. You may as well blame me for sexually assaulting women because of the misdeeds of Harvey Weinstein under your logic. And of course, then you also have to accuse all middle easterns of religious extremism.

@Tendix the bible also contains incest. It is not accepted by the church today. Why?

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I have never understood this either, why would you fight so hard for acceptance in to an organisation that hates who and what you are, claims you are a crime against nature and twice in its own sacred texts condemns you to painful inhumane execution.

In another group I previously belonged to, I was on speaking terms with a well known human rights and LBGTQ activist, who was knocking himself stupid to get back in to the LDS church, who had excommunicated him for his Homosexuality.
I kept asking him why and he kept saying because he WAS A MORMON, a denomination that by definition despises gays people as one of their major selling points.

I know about cognitive dissonance by some people abuse the privilege.

@RobLawrence
I confronted a Somali missionary in my home town with just that point, poor lad had no idea what I was talking about, so I demanded his Utah born companion explain it to him, the lousy git lied to my face and said he had never heard of the black priesthood ban and that I must be mistaken.
This is how low the church has gone in its now desperate attempts to recruit new members for poor African countries.

@LenHazell53 you "demanded"??????
The proper response to anyone who demands anything from another is f* ck off, period.

@AnneWimsey
Sorry Anne have done or said something to upset you?

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Curiously, there is no mention in the gospels regarding homosexuality that I am aware of, therefore, from a textual viewpoint, Jesus is silent on the matter. In Corinthians Paul uses the term arsenos koiton translated from Leviticus which refers to shrine prostitution. Bearing in mind that in Romans Paul criticises 'gossips, slanderers, the arrogant and boastful' in the same context as homosexuality declaring "such things are worthy of death", looks like we are probably all off for a stoning! The only voices of dissent that we hear on the issue of homosexuality are from Paul and in the text of 1 Timothy which also uses the expression arsenos koiton. It seems that the problem is not with Jesus but with Paul. Is Paul's zeal and impatient paranoia sufficient to inspire such ire in the name of his 'saviour'? To cut Paul a bit of slack he was speaking in a specific time in a specific location, for a specific mission but I would suggest the ideas are no longer pertinent.

Brilliant response. My heart rate increased as I read your words because I am SO in agreement. Well done, you!

@SheBeSecular Thank you Anytime!?

@iamjc Hahaha...he lives in Australia, unfortunately.

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Yep, you are the only one.

@RobLawrence Read the last sentence of the OP. This is just my nonsensical response.

@RobLawrence
It refers back to the last line of the OP.
And from the other comments, it can be seen to be erroneous

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Have you seen Jesus up on that cross? Rowwr!

😀

@RobLawrence Yes, but SO cross!

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Feel the same way about Republican women

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Why are you berating people who i am sure get enough grief anyway?! None of your damned business, either their sexuality Or their religion!!!.

Just what brought that on???

@jlynn37 if somebody took that tone/stance with me, they would get, at the least, the question I posed. You allow yourself to listen to rants like that?

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I would argue that Romans isn't "God's word". Romans was a letter written by Saul of Tarsus to a church in Rome. It was his opinion (though he claims to have had hallucinatory conversations with Jesus) on how people should behave and how the church should be run.

Meep70 Level 7 June 19, 2018

@iamjc yeah, but I spilled my kool-aid instead of drinking it. 🙂

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You mean religion? Yeah, it's all bullshit. Gay people can believe and justify bullshit just like anybody else.

zeuser Level 9 June 18, 2018

exactly, their sexuality has nothing to do with their dumb-ass religious beliefs

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THey don't seem to be overly concerned about adulterers either. Plenty of preachers have been adulterers. I can understand them not worrying about pedophilia. I believe the bible endorses marriage to minors.

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Who else would be priests, though?

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No, you are not the only one that thinks so. Your post is absolutely correct. The bible is not reliable for much.

we do know their was a king david. lol

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Watch the documentary Religious. Bill interviewed two gay Muslim activists. He also interviewed a Fransiscan preist. The preist said that if you are gay you are gay, and you should be happy. Bill said that's not what the bible said. He said that's what the bible meant to say...

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How does religious ideals tie up with paedophile priests? It shows that you can invoke the name of god and still be a vile person. That is what makes religions so laughable. Okay many religious people are good people. No doubt about that. But many, especially in America, make millions in the name of religion. They know how to use the name of god to make money. That is called using the concept of a non-existent being to rip off the poor. Not to different to selling snake oil.

Just playing devil's advocate here but commercialism is a timeless construct with a product being touted for profit. Not that there is snything wrong with profit but profiteering is a major concern. God in this context is no less a product than cigarettes. Indeed, if one gives up tobacco there is no ostricism from the family.. The God product, in carefully designed, recyclable packaging is a bargain at whatever price if 'it leads to the salvation of the soul of the unworthy sinner'. You can almost here the clattering of the gold coins and the crashing of the tables in the synagogue if you listen carefully.!

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An argument can be made that god created all things to be exactly as they are. If one holds that belief, one can assume that homosexuals were created to be homosexual and that they serve a purpose in the divine plan. In that case, it would be easy for a homosexual believer to come to terms with the idea that his relationship with god is not connected to his relationship with society.

That said... belief requires the suspension of reality. Both concepts of god and concepts of sexuality are man made. If we made it, we can twist in whatever way suits our individual and collective needs.

Says exactly that in the gnostic gospels.

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They were just raised with it, I’d guess.

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choices. I support their beliefs even as fucked up as it seems. it’s right for them is all that matters.

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Well there is more than one religion, but any that are gay and follow the Abrahamic ones baffle me besides the fact that they can be indoctrinated and cherry pick like the rest of humanity...

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Yeah, I don't get it either. It's hard to shake indoctrination..

Marz Level 7 June 18, 2018
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The "Old Testament" has been given the heave,dwindling church attendance is the reason for homosexuals being welcome with open arms.

Coldo Level 8 June 18, 2018
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That's the whole point of atheism. I don't understand how anyone can believe in fairytales.

I get your point, but I really believe a large number of religious people are only religious by default. They go with the flow, celebrate holidays, and believe only superficially without questioning.

JimG Level 8 June 18, 2018
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For the record last time I checked Christianity wasn't the only religion on Earth.

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Why go to church if you're divorced and remarried. Certainly the Bible states one spouse for life with the exception of adultery.
Organized religion eventually evolve but it's normally too late to fix the lives they broke.
I have seen churches where the LGTBQ community are accepted, loved and welcomed. Ames church in IL comes to mind.

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People in general seem to need something to believe in and with the ruling classes regularly screwing everyone else over regardless of country, well... something bigger outside of themselves seems to fit the bill. Giving whatever that is a godly status and persona and creating rules of conduct to honor that "something" generally follows in short order.

I think on some level, some people still realize this and instead of letting someone else tell them what is right or wrong, shifting the religious dialog so they can keep their beliefs seems to be an easier step than just not believing at all. That isn't unusual. Even what we consider the biblical cannon right now was changed many times over the years. Different councils decided on different books to add, subtract or change depending on the ideas of religious authorities of any given time period.

Honestly, I don't believe homosexuality was even addressed in Christianity earlier on. I've seen papers discussing the process of how such things developed and how sexuality advanced through different times and places where Christianity was concerned. I honestly think many of those involved just need acceptance, assurances and support in the idea that they are ok as they are. That's what most religious grouping amounts to, similarities in ideas and belief congregating around the idea of some deity to make it all seem more important, give it more purpose.

AmyLF Level 7 June 19, 2018
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Because you're born gay or straight, or bi. No one would choose a life of discrimination. If you're also born into a religious community, you've got double trouble.

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