Wait, its been over a year since I have had sex with someone so I am a virgin again! Maybe that's one reason I have been in a funk lately.

8 hours ago. Happens every day. One of the perks of being a hippie. I feel sorry for those of you who have been sexless for months or years. The fault lies within yourself. You are the ones making the decision to be celibate. You need to open your mind and feel what the universe is offering you. Become one with the earth and surround yourself with the energy that courses through you at every moment of your existence on this plane. Learn to love all that you see and rejoice in the
fact that you are a part of it all.

What if they weren't really a "partner" but instead just laid still crying because I'm so bad at sex? Does that count?

I'm pleading the 5th.

Slightly more than ten but way less than thirty. So to damned long.

What does sex have to do with atheism unless you were fucked by your clergynaut as a child? After seeing some of these responses and comments I wonder if any of you get out and socialize?

Mine is not going to be a representative sample, since it was an attempt by my ex as an alternative to marriage counseling and getting to the bottom of the real problems. And I gotta tell you, "save my marriage" sex is the worst kind of sex.

I don't care what society or culture says about how often I should or shouldn't have sex. I decide what I want, with who, when, and how often. It's been 9 years since I had a significant other but I have had sex during that time with as much as a 4 yr gap in between. I have what I consider a healthy sexual appetite but try not to put expectations on frequency, that is determined by myself and the individual I'm with. So society can go fuck themselves, I determine my own norm!

It might be more useful to ask: 'when did you last have enjoyable sex?'.

I haven't voted as I'm just under the age limit! Just over 5 years for me, but I don't (or should that say didnt haha) have meaningless sex for the hell of it. Quality beats quantity in every sense.

September 2015

Yep.

with a partner? It's been 2,561-62 days now. I have a relationship with "Hanna". She's always been there by my side for my entire life. Testosterone packed it's bags and left some time ago and a reasonable facsimile isn't allowed. My urologist told me that or orgasm twice a week was good keeping the prostate from swelling so I follow his instructions. He even told me to get a girlfriend. I told him I was an atheist and he said with a sad face, "oh". What a dilemma eh? I don't really miss it bt it wold be nice to do again with someone that I'm emotionally conneted to.

At least I'm in the majority!

It's been so long I'm not sure I remember even how it goes

If you look at the ads on TV and in print sex is only for the young. The exception being ads for Viagra and Cialis. And they imply older men are all dysfunctional. All of this is a bunch of bunk.Studies have shown that older people who have sex (once a week or more) have less depression and are happier in their relationship.

Is there another way of having sex? If so, why has nobody told me? I'm angry.

sex is certainly overrated, yet the physical closeness, excitement & affection i remember accompanying it would be a thing of beauty after a cold spell of 12 years - but then, i'm well past 50, hormones in the basement, & i find the idea of crashing into a libidinous man between daunting & jocular.

I’m pretty sure the last time was last July or maybe August. Anyway, it’s been about a year.

I truly cannot remember, but I think it has been more than a year. I remember who, just not when. I'm not sure if I should be concerned or not. But I haven't found anyone in the past couple of years or more that I've wanted to develop a relationship with. If I was willing to have a long distance relationship maybe things would change, but such as it is, Omaha is where my kids settled and I don't want to move.

good points

"I think sex can be pretty great, but sometimes it's not that great.". The worst I ever had was wonderful.

"For me, I haven't been in relationship for several years, so it's been a long dry spell. ". One does not have to be in a relationship to have and enjoy sex.

"I'm starting to wonder if this is something that one "should" be ashamed of.". In my opinion, one should only be ashamed when they have caused or done harm to another.

3 hours ago and I have pictures (she insisted)but I guess you still can't post them here. She came over unannounced, treated me to lunch, straddled me, orgasmed and left. Wait what was the question?

Been almost a year now.

It was in May. I have a farmer friend that comes to town once in a while. I'm pretty sure he's super busy with farm stuff right now. He'll show up again.

No option for 'can't remember'?