I almost voted virgin. I feel like I'm starting over.

I have recently read about a 30-day 'test'. If you have a partner (which I don't at the moment) you should have 30 days of sex in a row. I've never tried this, but can see the benefits as well as how difficult it might be. Anyone want to be a test bunny with me?

As a born again virgin I am waiting for the rapture. Then I might do myself. Deviant enough?

Got testosterone? = horny
Got estrogen? = not so much
simple

I find I don't really care who's doing what when ... except me, and whomever .

This is not what I consider normal, but due to lack of a partner, it has been a long time. When I was married, I would have had sex 4 days or more a week if my wife had been agreeable. Now, at 66, I would be happy to cuddle, and let sex happen when we were ready. I sure do miss it! ?

Ummm, what year is this? It's been awhile... that's all I'm saying.

No Vote... I don't get poll by strangers on my personal habits or history. Society tells me shit about what I do, how I do it, when I do it.

I’m pretty sure the last time was last July or maybe August. Anyway, it’s been about a year.

Uh, it was over a year, and it wasn't that great.

Interesting post! And I almost agree with you completely! But, why would not having sex, be a red flag to anyone? Maybe, this shows what is upmost important to some people? I say the same for having or not having sex...’never judge a book by it’s cover!’

Sex? what's that again?

No option for 'can't remember'?

It was in May. I have a farmer friend that comes to town once in a while. I'm pretty sure he's super busy with farm stuff right now. He'll show up again.

Been almost a year now.

3 hours ago and I have pictures (she insisted)but I guess you still can't post them here. She came over unannounced, treated me to lunch, straddled me, orgasmed and left. Wait what was the question?

"I think sex can be pretty great, but sometimes it's not that great.". The worst I ever had was wonderful.

"For me, I haven't been in relationship for several years, so it's been a long dry spell. ". One does not have to be in a relationship to have and enjoy sex.

"I'm starting to wonder if this is something that one "should" be ashamed of.". In my opinion, one should only be ashamed when they have caused or done harm to another.

good points

I truly cannot remember, but I think it has been more than a year. I remember who, just not when. I'm not sure if I should be concerned or not. But I haven't found anyone in the past couple of years or more that I've wanted to develop a relationship with. If I was willing to have a long distance relationship maybe things would change, but such as it is, Omaha is where my kids settled and I don't want to move.