Iβm one of those types of people lol. I absolutely canβt stand a dirty, unorganized kitchen or place. Lol
I wash dishes as I cook. If it's just a coffee morning, I'll rinse everything (cup, spoon) and leave it to wash after lunch. That's the only time I have dirty dishes. I helps that the living room, dining area and kitchen are one open space. No way to hide a mess.
That does not happen in my world. Ever.
It's a rare occasion when even a dirty spoon gets left in the sink overnight.
There is no excuse for slovenly behavior.
It's also another reason that I really don't want to ever live with anyone else.
is too! lol
Is family environment a factor do you think? I grew up in a hoarder's home, so clean is a pretty loose term for me
@KKGator Admittedly, self discipline is an area that could use some work! Never seems like enough time though. I am at work 7 days, 70 hrs a week, have 2 teenage kids and a disabled wife... so sometimes its hard to get everything completed.
I am not complaining, just sometimes there isn't enough time for everything.
Might be getting a 40hr a week job soon instead... that will help a LOT!
My job is keeping kitchen clean...nothing left overnight...
Never happens, ever. And I would not live with someone that lazy.
You would be mortified by my kitchen. It stays in the sink until I need it. Then it gets washed.
I hate, hate, hate washing dishes but I can't stand dirty dishes left in the sink. It drives me crazy.
I hate waking up to dirty dishes. Always clean up the kitchen before going to bed.
While food is cooking, I like getting the dishes done before the timer rings.
When my daughter was a teenager, she rolled in at midnight and made a snack. In the morning, I was confronted with a mess: dirty dishes and pans with food cemented. Food spills on the table, floor, counters and chairs. Claire didn't even rinse a pan or dish. Then she slept until noon. This infuriated me.
"Everybody knows you are OCD, Mom," Claire replied when I complained. She blamed me, instead of taking responsibility for her behavior. Grrr...
What cured her? Claire got a puppy at age 19. Cocoa chewed her boots, shoes and everything on the floor.
Now Claire, 28, is neat and organized like me. Thank you, Cocoa!
Keeping busy while still cooking, makes the whole chore more enjoyable !!
I have to live with it. My housemates and I are not the most physically or mentally well of creatures, and some chores can end up sitting for a few days while we collectively wrangle clinical depression, fibromyalgia, narcolepsy, and joint hypermobility disorders.
I see myself as having three options. I can scream and throw fits because other people aren't doing it, I can be passive aggressive like my mother was and martyr myself to the cause of doing it myself and thereby use up energy that could be better served elsewhere (like personal hygiene or paying work), or I can accept that the place isn't going to be spotless and all three of us chip away at it whenever and for however long we can. I see the third option as the sanest.
I legit HATE it! I don't allow it in my house.
Perhaps you should start a theurapeutic blog for survivors of dirty kitchens.
As an executive chef for 3 decades...I have mastered the "clean as you go" kitchen (by hand, not with a machine).
The goal is, that when you sit down to eat, the only dishes that aren't clean are the ones on the table being used.
My kitchen is spotless and everything has it's place (it's also in my BnB, so it has to be immaculate).
There are NEVER dirty dishes left in the sink. Ever. That might be the one thing that I actually consider a "sin". LOL
Leave the dirty dishes on their beds.
Maybe then they will get the point.
People who expect others to clean up behind them suck.