A partner

Intelligence

The ideal 'partner' is someone with whom safe, mutual vulnerability is possible.

I tend to avoid relationships in the traditional sense because I feel like it adds needless weight and social contracts that in the end make people unhappy over time. I tend to take a more free approach to love, and just befriend people and go with the flow as to what happens.

Physical Attraction (Thin Skinny Blonde)... is not the only important quality, but it is the first thing I look for because this is the quality that will keep me from searching for better options and it is easier to spot. Then comes the difficult parts: see who they are, their history, family relationship history, life stage and lifestyle, are they "Thankful" (secret to being happy), non-judgemental (secret for truth & honesty)... too many to list, maybe just looking for the unicorn. BTW, laughing with you is an indicator that she likes you a lot, especially if your jokes are really corny.

Just be attractive and not annoying and we'll get along forever. Haven't found this combination yet.

Humor!!! When it comes to a serious relationship... leave the "serious" behind and just have fun with each other. Other than that of course trust and friendship.

The most important quality in a partner, is their ability to mentally stimulate me. Debate with me. Challenge me. MAKE ME THINK! When we visit, I want to be different, better, at the end than when we entered the conversation.

Communication.

A partner that we can enjoy each other..

A person who is genuine to him/herself. Someone who is able to think freely without caring about the opinions of others.

Can i make you laugh? Do you make me laugh?! Done!

I most look to build trust, which can open the doors to mutual, satisfying vulnerability. Once I can trust enough to be vulnerable, the sex is incredible.

honesty.. with honesty you can build trust. without trust you have nothing

Well, the single most important criterion for me, right now, is material existence, i.e my partner kind of has to be... you know, real. That's the first thing. So far, it remains unfulfilled.

Ego diminished. Intelligence, humour, curiosity and creativity expanded.

Sex is important. I have kinky interests, so someone who's vanilla wouldn't fulfill me enough.

Other than that, someone who complements me (not comPLIments, comPLEments) as far as hobbies, interests, sense of humor, and so on go. Someone who will take care of me as much as I'll take care of her.

I want someone I can fart in front of, take out to a nice Italian restaurant, and who'll get excited about a sci-fi movie festival.

trust

Agreed. Friendship is the most important thing. If you aren't friends, it won't last.

My BFF????????

Honesty

My most important factor is physical touch. So, someone touchy/feely/cuddly.

Love. First and foremost! I miss being in love... that thrill you get when they're calling or on their way home. Now that I'm over 60, my mother advises me to be satisfied with just "companion". Unfortunately I haven't even managed to find that lately! But what I really want is that mutual "I just want to be with you" feeling.

communication

honesty,we can tell each other anything we want too