What are you most looking for in a relationship? Just your # 1 Thing
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What is the most important quality in a partner? Is it a great sexual partner? Is it someone who can bring home a nice paycheck? Or is it something else?
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.Spice and shared companionship. Care to move to Ohio? 
William_Mary
Level 8
Dec 23, 2017
1
Compatibility is the one word. For me that implies very smart, independent thinker, mutual chemistry, and has their shit together.
shockwaverider
Level 8
Dec 23, 2017
1
Companionship, intimacy, fellowship, friendship, company, interesting conversation.....and.....sex
Gatovicolo
Level 8
Dec 23, 2017
0
Someone to actually love me and my personality.
Sarahroo29
Level 8
Dec 23, 2017
0
Sex is great, a fat paycheck would be lovely but for me it is someone I feel totally relaxed with and whom I love little more each day.
PaddyARyan
Level 3
Dec 25, 2017
1
Calmness and reason. The time I was with my son's mother taught me that I value being right more than supporting my partner unconditionally. Therefore, I need someone who can calmly discuss situations and bases their ideas and actions on evidence.
IntellectualRN
Level 6
Dec 27, 2017
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Emotional maturity - which is an umbrella statement that encompasses other character traits of being...
TestingTheWaters
Level 2
Dec 27, 2017
0
Trust and respect. There is nothing worse than a fraud. Everything else is totally inconsequential.
BrigittaCuadros
Level 6
Dec 27, 2017
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Intelligence and humor (yes it’s two things, but I find intelligence and humor go hand-in-hand)
mattydaddy71
Level 4
Dec 30, 2017
1
Intelligence and humor go hand in hand. You can't really have one without the other
Physical attraction, good communication, common interests.
DominicG79
Level 4
Jan 2, 2018
0
Radical honesty. Which requires a great deal of self awareness. If you have a propensity for fooling yourself, you will inadvertently be dishonest with others. "The first rule is do not fool yourself. And you're the easiest person to fool" - Richard Feynman
Fearlessfreep
Level 7
Jan 5, 2018
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Connection...every relationship from a pet to a lover. Connection!
MonkeyInShoes
Level 3
Jan 17, 2018
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Used to be big tits, but now its no drama and a shared interest in having a pleasant time.
clarkatticus
Level 7
Jan 18, 2018
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About how long ago did you ditch the big tits desire/requirement to have great interpersonal romantic relationship?
@BlueWave I admit to being just humorous here although I did put way too much importance on the physical side in my youth. Truthfully intelligent conversation is more of a turn on nowadays. I have been single all but 6 years of my adult life, I have lived a wonderful and interesting life. I am looking for no one but would enjoy a good, intelligent companion.
Authenticity - more than simple honesty, it is a willingness to let someone in, be vulnerable and know that Child in all of us. I once heard it put very well. “If you share with me what you hate about yourself, I will Love it for you.”
simplenfree
Level 2
Jan 21, 2018
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I stay away from gold diggers, that’s my #1 pet peve.
Also women that high maintenance.
To much makeup is a turn off.
Just an average bod is good with me no need to be a super model.
Chemistry is also important to me.
If finding thease traits are hard to find thease days.
Dombrowski47
Level 4
Jan 23, 2018
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