I attract users and scam artists, and gay guys. I'm straight btw, so while it's flattering please stop.
It's been so long since someone expressed attraction that I don't remember if there's a type. I'm attracted to men who are smart, kind, nontraditional, and funny. I don't have a physical type, except I really don't find men who are too muscular very attractive. A little padding makes for a nicer cuddle (to me).
Attorneys/finance types are attracted to me for whatever reason. Tall..and fit and educated because I am. Hair color and the rest doesn’t matter.
Maybe seems to be a type I attract. Insecure type. I first prefered is a smart intelligent women. Now body type and size is very wide. Very large women I am not attracted too sexually.
I have a certain type, but I have no idea what type may be attracted to me.
Attract a certain type of the opposite sex?
Falls into two categories:
#1: Those that need (emotional) "Saving"
#2: Those that share my respect for science over superstition.
I am no longer interested in burning my time on #1 and all the #2 I once knew have left the state for better jobs.
I don't have a 'certain' type.
But I do have to say that I do tend to favor dark hair, and brown eyes. And intelligence plays a much bigger role than any physical attributes, Mostly).
But as to who I might be attracted by, Well, I have no clue. I'm fairly stupid in what people see in me.
I seem attract only unattractive ladies which is rather odd since I never considered myself unattractive. Maybe I am now at 62 but I'm talking about the years before the aging process took over.
I never did marry but I have no doubt I could have done if I'd accepted one of these ladies, but for me if the physical attraction is not there then there is no point.
I'm not saying I was ever searching, or hoping for, a beautiful model type, for that would be silly. I simply wanted a reasonably attractive slim to medium build lady with a pleasant, easy going personality. I met many like that but it rarely went past the first date which has always puzzled me since I'm a decent, honest, pleasant, easy going person. I had a 19 day relationship with a girl in 1995 who ticked all the right boxes but she dumped me and said I was "too nice." Perhaps she meant boring.
At 62 I still live in hope, but not much, I'll find that someone special. Not necessarily for marriage because I'm too set in my ways now, but certainly a loving relationship where we just see each other three or four times a week.
I have a preferred type of person. One who values reason and has the same political values that I do. I would like to think I attract that type, but seem to have Christian men and Republican and centrist interested. Even when I state that I am an atheist/agnostic liberal Men will still ask about going out.
While I'm attracted to bohemian types; artists, musicians and the like...it's usually the clean and boring types that pursue me. Why is that?
Because myself and others are all too busy chasing bad-boy artist types. Leaving nobody left but actual people that will treat you right.
@UrsiMajor by the way, your intro...thats excellent!